Should i tell my guy friend that I like him and want to be more than friends?

Question

I have been friends with this guy for almost three years and over the last couple of months I have started to like him as more than friends. should i tell him or would it ruin our friendship.

Answer 1

Tell him, if he's really your friend it wont change anything if he doesnt like you the same way and at the very least he'l be flattered. On the other hand he mightfeel the same or wnat to find out if he does. Not knowing if you might stand a chance with him is probs driving you mad, ive been there!!!! Believe me its worth a try, anything is better than going over what if. And as i said if hes really a friend if he doesnt feel the same he'l let you down gently, and you'l probs be closer in the long run. cos he'l cherish the fact that you really care about him. Fancying someone but not telling them can make u resent them when u see them maybe with another girl etc, and you might kick yourself for not trying if he gets a gf. Always better to regret action as oppose to inaction, psychologically proven! And positive there'l be nothin to regret anyways, whatever his answer, you have nothing to lose give it a go!

Answer 2

I know how you feel . I told this guy I liked more then a friend I liked him . he didnt feel the same way but he still regularly talks to me like nothing happened . I say go for it . if hes really your friend he'll stay friends with you even if you tell him .

hope that helps =]

Answer 3

well i dont know wot to do.. i mean u know him best i cant tell u wot to do. coz i dont know him.. as u said maybe it'll ruin ur friendship and maybe it wont.. i mean u just have to trust ur heart. know wots da best thing to do.. i know u'lll chose da right choice. coz u know him very well..
but think be4 u make ur dissition.
GOOD LUCK:)

Answer 4

Tell him how you feel....it just may work out for you. Best of luck to you.........