Me and Danielle have been best friends for about two years now. We've dated but broke up shortly after because I'm a missionary around these parts and I'm not home alot. Is it possible to get her back?
2006-12-06 07:07:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well as a missionary I think your heart should be true... You are living the way you want.. If she doesn't understand her heart is selfish, and on that note their are better woman in the world. Love can blind you... Maybe she wasn't right in the first place.... She should love that you give your heart and time away so generously...
2006-12-06 07:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by tabithascharm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe now isn't the right time for the two of you to be together and she knows it. You live a busy life especially with missionary work. It is going to be hard but if the two of you love one another, can communicate well, trust and respect the others wishes, then you may have a chance. I hope it works out.
2006-12-06 07:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ministry comes first. Ask yourself if Danielle has the gifts and calling on her life to be a missionary's wife? I think if you're ready, you should ask God for the specific things you know that you want in your future wife. I'm sure that God has someone for you---who is your perfect match and that you can begin to intercede for her even now thru prayer and fasting. If you think it is Danielle, then pray. If she is meant for you, God will bring you together in His timing. God is a good Father, He knows how to give good gifts to His children---trust Him.
2006-12-06 07:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by Yuli P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like Danielle requires more attention then you have to offer her. Are you willing to change any of your lifestyle around to compromise and make her happy ? Id try talking to her and see if this is teh whole reason she broke up with you. If so..ask her if there is any compromise you could offer her to regain her affection continue a relationship.
2006-12-06 07:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by jslorri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when you think of her call her...tell her what you feel...write her letters...Maybe if you want to be with her, then yall can get together once your done bein a missionary. Don't let go the one's you care for that easy...
2006-12-06 07:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll bet it is possible, the question is, what are you willing to do that will change the reason why you broke up in the first place?
2006-12-06 07:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...im sure she would go back out with you if she truely loved you. you guys wouldnt have broke up if you trulely loved each other. you should ask her out again and wait for her answer. she would still want to be with you even if you arent around a lot because you guys love each other.
good luck =)
2006-12-06 07:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are unequally yoked don't make the effort are you will open yourself up for heartaches to come. Experience speaks. . .
2006-12-06 07:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by CryBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the "Marriage & Divorce" category. You want "Singles & Dating".
2006-12-06 07:11:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats well sad..umm i wish i knew both of you guys ..so i come help..but i went through the same with one of my friends..the way we got over it was, i moved to another county sooo i never see her again..sooo that solved our problem...but im not sure what to tell you..but im sorry
2006-12-06 07:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by colemanj90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋