I am so sorry for the loss you and your husband have had. It can be devastating to lose any pregnancy especially one so far along.
I would immediately make an appointment with a PERINATOLOGIST, this is a doctor that specializes in high risk pregnancies for women with hormonal imbalances, history of miscarriage and/or preterm labor, as well as infertility problems, large multiples (most triplets, quads, quints or more are handled by perinatologists) as well as array of other problems that can range from eclampsia, heart problems, etc.
They are much more pro active and aggressive when it comes to treating women and their pregnancies. Look for one now, find one you like and then they can do tests to see exactly what can be done to prevent this from reoccurring. They will also let you know when is the optimum time to try again as well be pro active in ensuring a healthy outcome for you and any baby you conceive.
I'm attaching a link from perinatology.com You should be able to find all kinds of reliable information about the field of perinatology and it is a good place to start. Perinatologist even perform fetal surgery during pregnancy if need be.
Without the help of a wonderful perinatology group that was very aggressive in treating me I would not be here today and neither would my youngest child. They took excellent care of me during the pregnancy and helped me carry our youngest child much longer than any ob/gyn would have felt comfortable doing. I had two heart attacks while pregnant with our youngest. Most ob/gyn's would not have allowed me to see the pregnancy through.
Good luck I wish you the best and if you have any further questions feel free to email me. I suffered preterm labor with all of our children (including those I lost). It is frightening and heartbreaking. Most people do not understand and just want you to move on. I think they don't know what to say or how to react.
2006-12-06 07:58:24
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answered by Wicked Good 6
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your children. They were not miscarried. They were a stillbirth. Very often, after the 22nd week of pregancy, pre-mature babies do survive.
How do you feel about your doctor? Do you feel comfortable? Do you feel he/she or could have done more? If you don't a have an overwelmingly positiving feeling about this doctor, get a new one. Tragedies do happen and sometimes there is nothing we can do...but there are other times when there are things we could have done (meaning your doctors--not you).
Your question is a good question for a good doctor.
I will keep you, your husband and all of your children in my prayers. God bless.
2006-12-06 07:25:04
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answered by Mary's Daughter 4
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I'd be trying now if that were me. If you fell pregnant straight away for some reason you will still have a good gap between kids, if it takes longer to fall then the wider the gap and the harder it is. I'd be going for it now if you can. Best of luck
2016-05-23 01:26:10
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm sorry to hear about you loss. It's is usually advisable to wait from 3 mos. before trying again or until you get a regualr period for a few cycles. But check with your healthcare provider 1st to see if there is any underlying cause of your MC.
2006-12-06 07:08:12
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answered by nicole b 4
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Sorry to hear of your loss and I am sure it was heartbreaking.
Mostly doctors advise giving your body at least 6 months to get over the trauma of miscarriage
Talk to your OB/GYN doctor
2006-12-06 07:11:59
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answered by Anonymous
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I would start trying again as soon as you feel ready to try again. I do not think that you have to wait any certain amount of time. In feburary my health nurse went through the same thing as you and she is gonna be having a baby in Dec. sometime
2006-12-06 07:08:40
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all, I am sorry to hear of your loss. With your medical issues, I would consult my OB/GYN and ask him/her these questions. We can give you well intentioned advise, but you have some issues that need to be medically addressed. Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-12-06 07:07:44
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answered by GP 6
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i heard that doctors suggest to wait for 6 months in order to give time the uterus to recover but i suppose every case is different. you must ask your doctor that your best bet.
2006-12-06 07:09:50
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answered by inuog 2
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So very, very sorry to hear about your miscarriage.
Perhaps this short video will comfort you...
"I Spoke With My Child"
http://www.ISpokeWithMyChild.com
2006-12-08 08:00:13
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answered by maximumreferrals 2
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you should be talking to your obgyn ,
unless he's telling you what I would, & you don't want to hear it...
2006-12-06 07:07:32
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answered by Anonymous
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