At my school there is a girl, who is my 'friend' and at lunch she takes like half my lunch so I am left with whatever she doesnt want even when she buys her own lunch (I have told her not to do that and its annoying because I buy my own lunch for me to eat not for her to eat it along with her lunch) , she is always trying to boss me around (I dont listen 90% of the time), she is always 'play' pushing me off the seat at lunch (and it hurts cause she literally thrust me off the seat) , she will try and 'do my hair' even though it makes me feel bad because I like the styles I or my mom do to my hair and she just takes it out and then I get in trouble at home for it, she will pull me by my hair and yank me back and worth and its hurts like heck! , she trys to turn my real friendds against me! What should I do ?
2006-12-06 06:32:29 · 18 answers · asked by --; cookie. 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am not a fighter,and I wont do anythgn that has to do with phyiscal contact.
2006-12-06 06:41:43 · update #1
whoaaa
shes horrible
DROP HER.
She may fight you
But you know some people... All talk no action.
Goodluck
2006-12-06 06:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by sk8tr_grl88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told her that you don't like what she's doing? If you haven't, you probably should, but in a straightforward and polite way. Like when she pushes you, just say, "hey, don't do that, it hurts." And hopefully your friends know you well enough to trust YOU rather than her.
The best advice I can give is...forget about her. It's not your problem she's a little brat. Don't hang around her. If she comes around, don't run away, but don't go out of your way to hang out with her. If she talks to you, talk back, but don't make an effort to continue the conversation. Don't be mean to her, but don't go out of your way to be nice to her, either. She'll eventually lose interest.
2006-12-06 09:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a very subtle bully. Dump her from your circle of friends fast. She is being abusive and aggressive, stand up to her.
When she sits near you get up and move seats, tell her to stop stealing your lunch, and if she doesn't, you make a scene. People like her don't want to be noticed, they want to bully in private. Scenes can be hard but it should drive her away. Though she will probably just find another victim. If she touches your hair/head after you tell her to stop, report her for assualt. Or shoves you off your chair again, they are assualts! Be strong and firm. Take martial arts if you can to defend yourself from her.
2006-12-06 06:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your principal
then start avoiding her
change your seat at lunch so she cant eat it
tell your other friends whats going on so they can talk 2 her too
drop her as a friend
or sit down and talk 2 her about what she does to you
no1 deserves to be bullied
2006-12-07 09:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is coming from a girl who was bullied for most of her school life by friends and non friends.
stop hanging around with her she is horrible. you dont want to go through your school life being bullied it will affect your grades like it did with mine and you will lose your confidence all together.
make friends with nicer girls n if she doesnt get the message go to your teacher or mum and tell them.
she shouldnt get away with this. i wish i had done something about the bullies at my school.
it was 4 years since i left and i have no confidence or self esteem coz they took all that. i now have a baby girl and fiance and i will do all i can to make sure my daughter never gets bullied.
hope this helps please stop being friends with her. you deserve better friends then that.
2006-12-06 09:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by babytots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her.say screw you ***** I payed for this go find some food in the garbage. Say leave me alone now or prepare to die. tell your mom she will also take care of it. Well I am in the sixth grade and that is also considered a bully. Tell her that to go smootch somebody elses food and sombodys hair. Just drop her
2006-12-06 07:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by summergorske 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, here's my advice
when she takes your food, joke and laugh with her and say, "gosh fatty, chill out with it, but take it this time, im trying to watch my weight" and when she pushes you, laugh and push her back harder. establish that you ARE a force to be reckoned with and i swear she will never push you again. as for the food thing, joke about her getting fat from eating all of your food.
(the reason she takes your food and pushes you is because she knows that it bothers you, if you act like it doesnt and plant a seed of doubt in her head, she'll question what she's doing and quit all together. )
and if all of this fails, KNOCK HER OUT!
2006-12-06 06:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Royal R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes not a friend at all if she acts like that. Also you have more important things to worry about, like school, to wast it on her. Pick better friend I can promise you that you will feel better being in control of yourself.
2006-12-06 06:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by Dalis M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please make a new friend - as this gal is really bad news.
You don't need friends like this.
Tell her to keep her hands to herself and not to touch you or anything that belongs to you.
If she does not respond, report her. Maybe your school has a peer mediation program?
You don't need her or her abuse, and you do not deserve it.
All the best,.
2006-12-06 07:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by what's up? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you still hang out with her then?!
just ignore her, if she pushes you off the
bench, just laugh with her, and just dont sit
with her at lunch that way you can actually eat!
2006-12-06 09:22:48 · answer #10 · answered by UH-MAN-DUH!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should stickup for yourself.
if she wants to take you lunch say very firmly NO.
let her kno your not playing.
and stop hanging around her.
she is not a good person.
and you can do sooo much better than her
2006-12-06 08:37:27 · answer #11 · answered by kailynn marie ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋