We hang out, we talk on the phone for hours. I think she is a lesbian but I am not sure. I have always dated guys but I am sooo attracted to this girl. I think we keep trying to feel each other out but I really want to see if she likes me. I don't know what to say or do because we both are kinda shy. I haven't asked her if she is a lesbian but I really wanna experience being with her.
2006-12-06 06:27:47 · 7 answers · asked by curious girl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I say Enjoy the flirtation and every now and then take it another step up. If she's responding, touch her a bit longer, look at her with sexy eyes, she'll get it. If the sexual tension exists from both sides, there's nothing you can do to stop it. Just be natural and confident and happy. She's probably just as intrigued as you are by the situation so it won't do any harm to casually open up the topic of same sex attractions. Sharing your fantasies is also part of the preliminaries that lead to better sex...I think this early stage of seduction is the hottest so enjoy it girl...
2006-12-06 06:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Changed by Lithium 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why think about feeling ea. other out, get busy, A nice romantic evening candles etc. You'll know. It happens w/that awkward feeling just like it does right before a guy wants to lay one on ya. Good Luck and have fun.
2006-12-06 06:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by carmella.2006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take her home and watch a romantic movie with her... Then move closer and kiss her. You can make out in the night. The you guys can talk about relationship directions in the morning.
2006-12-06 07:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if she is a talking to you for hours and you try to touch her and she tries to touch you well she might be a lesbian
2006-12-06 06:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Crazyworldwartwofreak_657 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should ask her in plain words straight about this,without thinking much,n tell her that if shes not intrested then ur relation wiht her will not disturb ,it will remain as it is n this thing will finish of the very then there itself
2006-12-06 07:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by kawal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just come out and say you date females. then she might open up and say me to or say really? i could never do that. then go from there.
2006-12-06 06:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try some light flirting. see how she responds.
good luck!
2006-12-06 06:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋