What do I tell my friend?

Question

I have a woman friend who always wears really tight pants because she thinks her butt looks good but in reality her belly hangs over the pants and when she tries to wear tight shirts,you can literally count her rolls.Should I just let her be confident or tell her people laugh at her?

Answer 1

You know, I really think you should just be happy for her, because most people will never have that, thát confidence, because people laugh at them.
And that you can see her rolls is not that bad, better her rolls, then her ribs. Because in the west your fat or anorexic. You should just be happy for her and not laugh at her.
Somewhere deep inside, she might know that people laugh at her, as long as her friends just don't make her a joke, because I think it's just good to hear that people can still be confident about something. And you just be happy for her, because if she has a change of mood and she stops eating, you come her again, asking, "how can I make my friend eat again?" Think about it, just be happy for her......

And don't laugh at her and just let things be...

Good luck.

Answer 2

These things can actually dent her confidence. If she feels happy in these clothes, and she thinks she looks good in them, then she just looks good in them. Why should she feel ugly in that outfit, just because you, and a couple of other people laugh at her behind her back? (Obviously, or she would have noticed for sure.) If these people are so righteous they would have told her what they thought. But they know it's mean, and they would kinda feel bad about it, to say it straight to her face. So they keep it to themselves. I think it's great that a woman/girl actually dares to wear what she feels would look good on her, even though she might not have a tight body. Why does that bother people any way? Why is there so little tolerance for these things?
I feel sad for this woman. Not because you say she looks bad in that outfit, but because she has to wear something different because of the shape of her body.
But i guess that's just the way the media had played it out for us.
So, just tell her straight out then. Maybe there's a way for her to still wear that type of clothing but with just a few changes, at least in a way, so that she won't be laughed at any more. Because that's just awfull.
I hope she can find a way to still feel pretty in her own taste of clothes, but WITHOUT the nasty laughter.

Answer 3

That's a very hard position. Ummm... Tell her that your her for her in a good friend conversation way. And that to be honest, "Can I tell you as a friend. You may want to wear something a little more Conservative. Don't get me wrong sure you look good in a skirt and all, but honey you have to balance it with a little class and hide that tummy." Your not trying to hurt her feelings, but let her know that its for her own good. Be understanding and let her know about a certain out fit that suits her and your opinion to be a good match. "It's just that people talk and you and I don't want you to get hurt and I feel that as a Friend I just wanted to let you know!" I hope this is of some idea for help!

Answer 4

i would tell her that people laugh at her but dont be mean and try telling her what she would look good in.....

Answer 5

I think you should tell her the true event she will be angry for a few moments of you but I think it will pass it.

Answer 6

tell her people laugh at her

Answer 7

i think you should tell her.wouldnt you want someone to tell you.rem.you are her friend

Answer 8

if your a friend to her then you better tell her.