I'm currently 4 months pregnant and I'm really considering quitting my job so I can stay home with my four year onld and the new baby once it arrives. Trouble is, we can't afford to go with out my -income. I'm considering childcare- keeping around 4 kids or so for now (all children of close friends or family). Has anyone done this transition? I feel I will be much more happier spending time with my kids all day and the added plus of no more traffic, no more deadlines, and no more exspensive daycare. If anyone had done this, please offer advice. Just a consideration and I wasn't sure where to post this question:) Thanks!
2006-12-06 05:45:26 · 8 answers · asked by Dolphin 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sapphire, I work at a law firm as well. By the time you factor in my hour drive to the office, the (once the baby is here) $800 in daycare (OMfreakin'G- I had no idea it would cost me that much-lol) and all the other expenses, and factoring that'd I'd be loosing my ins. benefit for myself and having to pay for my son and myself to go on my husbands, I'm still looking at the same income I get month even a little more. SO, Financally, it's worth it and it's just worth it period to be with my babies:) I was just wondering if the transition goes smoothly and what all would I need to do:) Thanks!
2006-12-06 06:03:27 · update #1
my husband stays home with my baby & 10 year old. We have another one on the way. We made that decision after figuring that his income would barely pay for daycare and commuting expenses. you have to think about other things that you would spend money on like lunches and work clothes and car maintenice, along with daycare. and the time it takes also to do the daycare thing. I understand. It is great having a my husband or another family member be able to watch my children. Best wishes and good luck.
2006-12-06 05:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to do the same thing because I'm pregnant with my second daughter due in May. My older daughter is 17 months and I want to give her and the new baby my full attention because I work in a law firm and I'm expected back on my job a month after I give birth and I just can't see myself getting two kids ready for daycare. I think if you have a plan to support you family and you take the necessary steps now then when you're ready to execute it, it should run smoothly.
2006-12-06 05:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what you think. I rather fight traffic everyday than deal with some else's kid. People are very different in the way they raise their children and God forbid if lil' Timmy bumps his head. That kid's mom will have a attitude out of this world. But seriously I worked for CPS previously and there are alot of risk associated in keeping other peoples children. You may want to try part time or something. Depending on you occupation maybe you can work from home.
2006-12-06 05:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by mary a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to consider whether it is really worth it to earn an income, have the expenses of work, and pay for daycare. Do you make enough for it to be worth continuing to work. Most people underestimate how much is costs to work - think of clothes, gas, eating out, daycare, etc. If you do think you make enough to still have some left over after all those expenses, think about whether you can make that much by babysitting. Generally, I feel that, unless you make over $50,000/yr, it's likely that working wouldn't be worth it. It all depends on your individual situation, though.
My mom stayed home with us and babysat a couple kids. She had no trouble with it and we managed, even though we had very little. You may have to cut some expenses, but it may be worth it. I think it was definitely worth it.
2006-12-06 05:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a wonderful idea to quit your job and stay home. You could probably make it work now by cutting corners. Sell the new car, get a junker (or get rid of the 2nd car since you now work at home). Stuff like that.
Home daycare can work. Just be sure you get proper license, zoning, insurance, etc
2006-12-06 05:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by Funchy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
staying home with your kids is a fine idea, my mom stayed home with us and ran a daycare all my life, infact she still does it. so if you think that is what you want to do absolutely do it! :)
2006-12-06 05:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, my boyfriends mom actually suggested this for me! i am seriously considering it once i am farther along. she did it for years and loved it. it sounds like a pretty good idea :)
2006-12-06 05:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think unless u know how u will survive with no job dont quit...if u make enough dont quit.
2006-12-06 07:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋