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Question

Is maturity a bad thing in a girl?

Let's say she has had a lot more experince in the world than the guy she's dating, so she usually follows her own instinct and is calm and relaxed when it comes to solving problems, is there a guy who would date a girl like this? I have a friend who consistently feels that a guy won't like her because she's calm and relaxed, but due to the circumstances she's been in she feels guys are more interested in girls who are fun to be with. When you're around, to tell you the truth, she's not that fun,but she is an amazing healer. I can go to her if I want to talk to someone to clear my mind. Guys, unfortunately have not been able to "connect" with her. What should I say to her. She's a good frined of mine and I would like her to feel good about herself but its more important that she know the truth. Let me know what you all think about her chances with guys and why?

Answer 1

Tell her to be patient because when she does find someone who connects with her, it will last for the rest of her life. Make sure she doesn't compromise and get with someone just because she is lonely. She is the type of woman all mature men want. No drama, just taken care of business.

Answer 2

look,males spontaneously follow their sexual instinct which even if passive still mean that girls who are vibrant and fun will be preferred.but also consider that another human instinct is also to give respect to co-humans when it is due.so what will happen here that in ordinary circumstances ur friend might not get the attention but once she interacts with a guy which she sure will in society,she will definitely impress.so my suggestion for her is -donot ever change ur real self,companionship is always a possibilty,a definite real possibility for every individual here.

Answer 3

A full on spiritual woman is not an easy person for most guys to get along with. Chaos works to a guys strengths and total calm is just too hard for most of us to deal with.
If she is happy let her be and live your own life.
If she is so good at solving problems she will fix it herself.

Answer 4

"Not all ur fingers the same". I mean there are also guys like calm n mature girls. She just have 2 be patient till find her guy :D
but i think most of guys like funny girls so she has to try 2 change herself a bit. I hope she finds him soon.
c u

Answer 5

She should change her personality. Maturity is often cool, but people can overdue things even maturity.

There is such a thing called to smart, therefore you can be/act to mature to the point it is almost fake or a game.

She will meet a guy that will balance her out one day.

Answer 6

Yes, especially when serios about the relationship

out of curiosity what exactly defines experience in the dating world nothing ussually works twice

Answer 7

Somewhere out there is a guy looking for exactly what she is. You can try being someone other than yourself in order to attract guys, but then you're going to be with someone who doesn't like you for you. I don't think that's solving anything. Wait for someone who will like you for you.

Answer 8

i don't know, might be a good thing but it sounds too serious and boring, she does need to just have fun and act like a kid now and then, everyone does and its attractive/fun/flirting/sexy theres always a proper time to be serious but when you want to attract attention you need to relax and have fun

Answer 9

Maturity is NOT a bad thing in girls...it's what we have over MANY, MANY, MANY, MANY, MEN.
She should date older guys...she sounds like a cool girl, so don't feel sorry for her.

Answer 10

Im thinking I should give this friend a test run before I give my Final answer.....but yes healing is good.