He's in my year at school and he's seriously never said a word to me before - he's in all my classes but it's like he ignores me on purpose and tries to stay away from me. In french today my friend said to me that he was giving me such a dirty look when I wasn't looking and I know this sounds a bit silly but it's getting really upsetting. I honestly have no idea why, I'm generally a quiet person, I'm not mean, I've never said anything bad about him so why is he being so cold towards me?
The weird thing is is that we're both arabic and I don't know why but I have a feeling it's got something to do with that.
2006-12-06 05:39:51 · 9 answers · asked by don't stop the music ♪ 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
The question is why is he acting like this to me?
2006-12-06 05:43:45 · update #1
I am a teenager, I'm 16...
2006-12-06 05:45:28 · update #2
I thought it may have something to do with our religions. I'm a Christian but I'm not sure what he is, his friend told me he isn't a muslim so I just have no idea what to think.
2006-12-06 06:07:15 · update #3
p.s. I haven't given anyone a thumbs down, so don't be offended please if you've got one, it wasn't me, I really do appreciate all your answers.
2006-12-06 06:09:05 · update #4
He may be mad because he feels you are not a good 'represntative' or 'ambassador' of your culture/community. Some arab families have fixed views on how women should dress, behave, talk or even how much education they receive.
I dont believe he does like you or is attracted. If that were the case you would have picked up something of it by now. Women are very intuitive, trust your instincts. I think u are right, he does have a problem, but its HIS problem,
Ignore him. Blank him out. Be proud of yourself, irrespective of how others behave.
2006-12-06 05:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by RealChic 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone gets zits, you just have to live through them and try another product. I found Neutragena works best for me. Check some of the foods you eat, they can cause zits too. Alot of greasy foods can cause break outs. Don't let your Ex-Best Friend upset you with her new friends, go out and cultivate new ones. Get out and don't mope around the house. It will just make you more depressed. Pray for your friend that she does not get mixed up with drugs and drinking. Are your grades so bad because of your depression? or where they bad before you got depressed? Put a smile on your face even if you don't feel like it, it will make you happy. It works!! Try it.... Also, think of all the good things in your life, don't focus on the negative things. Pretty soon you will be on your way to victory. Good things will start happening to you.
2016-05-23 01:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So whats the question?
ooooo... thanks for the update, i wasnt being rude, just needed to know a bit more... i can now answer lol
As im 35 and been through the whole school thing it can be a few things....
1. He likes you but is shy.... ive been there and im not shy but found it hard to talk to someone i liked at shcool... thats changed now lol
2. He does not have any feelings for you or even think about you but you have got it in your head that he ignores you and your being paranoid.
3. It could be a religion thing.... but its hard to guess which of those it is without even meeting someone but dont get upset about it as he might not know he is even doing it.
hope that helps
2006-12-06 05:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by 2 good 2 miss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like a classic case of a boy fancying you to be honest!Some boys tend to pick at a girl they like because it's the only way they know how to approach them (until they get a bit older) Have you ever thought about starting a conversation with him? He might think you don't want to speak to him. You'll soon be able to guage his feelings by how he reacts. He might be polite or he might give you a mouthful but if he squirms rather than being all confident then I'd say he's got a soft spot for you. Then only you can decide what to do next........
2006-12-06 05:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Question
You make a point of mentioning that you are both Arabic. Does he come from an exceptionally strict Moslem family? Do you wear hijab? Is it possible that his "hatred" is due to his religious beliefs?
Have you spoken to other boys when he could see it? Some Moslem sects believe that if you so much as speak to a man outside your immediate family that you are being the equivalent of a prostitute.
If he is truly upsetting you - talk to a teacher or your school counselor. I would be fearful for you, were I there, because from your description of his behavior, he sounds like someone who might easily decide that his religion allows him to do you physical harm because you are not following "his" rules.
Please be careful.
2006-12-06 05:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by sewmouse 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I know it can be upsetting when you get the impression someone doesn't like you for absolutely no reason. I don't really know what to say to you, it depends on your personality. If you really want to know the reason you should maybe ask him if you have ever said anything to upset him or, if you don't want to confront him, ask a friend of his or have your friend ask one of his. If not, then I guess you won't know...I really hope this works out for you because I sympathise with you...I don't like not being liked if I don't deserve it and I don't think it's fair.
Good luck!
2006-12-06 05:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, why do you care? If you've done nothing and he is giving you "dirty looks," you can simply ignore him. I'm not sure your age, but if you are a teenager, maybe that's his way of showing you he really likes you. Immature little boys don't know how to communicate with a girl they like, so they often do silly little things. But I certainly would ignore him and don't let it get to you, okay. :)
2006-12-06 05:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by terryoulboub 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
In this life you will find a lot of people who don't like you even though you believe they have no good reason to feel that way. It could be something totally stupid like the color of your skin, the way your voice sounds, gossip they chose to believe. Sometimes you will know (i.e. this goofy guy), sometimes you won't and they will just think it to themselves very quietly.
Accept it or confront him.
2006-12-06 05:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
trust me he likes you.... most likely. its a love hate thing. my friend at school used to hate this girl and would always go on about it.... but now they the best ov friends. i told him you used to hate her but he denies it now lol. just ignore him unless you like him??
2006-12-06 05:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by Terry Jones 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋