I can be extremely sensitive at times, taking things very personally or focusing on the smallest, most minor details. I am a Cancer and that is my nature, but I would like to work on not being so sensitive and thus moody. Like this one day I was trying to get a hold of a friend to hang out and she sounded strange and was short with me on the phone. So I take it personally and it turned out she was dealing with family problems. But I am constantly being told "So what!" or "Dont take it personally" when I am talking about what someone did, that I took to be something bigger.
2006-12-06 05:39:38 · 6 answers · asked by me 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Believe me, I feel you, girl. I'm a Cancer too, and that's one of our most common traits between us. We're all pretty sensitive. When I was younger, I didn't understand why I'd be so much more emotionally involved with little things, more so than other kids. Then, when I became old enough to learn things about myself and my sign, I realized that it was normal for me. At the same time, I saw how my overly sensitive nature was getting in the way of my own personal growth. I just had to reprogram myself in a sense. I started being more open minded and more tolerant of other people's feelings and what was going on with them. I had to realize that I wasn't the only person that could be having a bad day, or in a bad mood, or whatever. I came to terms with the fact that everyone has they're own opinions, and they probably will be different from mine. I also learned how to take a joke too. Not everything is about you. Not everything is meant to be against you. You have to learn to recognize things for what they really are and not what you're imagining them to be. It's hard, but I know you can do it. I did.
2006-12-06 07:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by keipitright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take everything with a grain of salt. My boyfriend is a cancer and he is just like that. Stop jumping to conclusions and realize life is full of disappointments. Don't make people responsible for your happiness. I noticed cancers only look at how they are feeling not knowing how the other person is feeling as well. Lastly, don't expect too much from people because you will get your feelings hurt everytime.
2006-12-06 14:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, you gotta get used to it. Iv kinda learned to let it roll off my back as much as possible and tried to force myself not to hang on to things emotionally, but there isn't a way to change the sensitive part.
2006-12-06 18:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by human_meat_is_yummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i'm a cancer and i drive myself INSANE! i also have a scorpio moon and pisces rising sign. SO MUCH EMOTION!
2006-12-06 23:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose some self importance (Shamans work on this a lot) Its not about you...
2006-12-06 13:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by morganna_f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't think too much of everything, take it easy
2006-12-06 14:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by HADEEL MAZIN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋