I'm starting to feel bad right now for my exboyfriend (besides the fact he was in a car accident) it just has me thinking about how last year he got me something for christmas and i ended up leaving him the day before so he gave the gift to my sister to give to me, its so sad.... i dont know is this normal to feel so bad for things like this i just want to cry!
2006-12-06 05:09:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its normal your human and it sound like your descent person. I think we don't get a chance to say what we feel at the right times and now you are having those thoughts now and its fine cry.let it go
2006-12-06 05:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by zabadass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why would you break up with someone the day before christmas? That seems a little cruel, this is the time of year that most people have big expectations of what the holidays are suppose to be and are always let down because they are disappointed with the outcome. Why would you contribute to someone else's holiday depressions that way, and did you keep the gift? You should feel bad if you broke his heart and kept the gift, you sound like a heartless person......who are you leaving this year??
2006-12-06 13:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over something like this is to apologize to the person if you can. It will make you feel so much better. It's never to late to say "you're sorry". Those 2 words can be very healing to both parties. And, yes, I have felt bad years later for something I did. I prayed about it and asked for forgiveness...that's the best I could do as I had lost touch with the person through the years. As I said, saying you're sorry will make your heart heal alot faster.
2006-12-06 13:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. It's just guilt. His accident has probably got you to thinking about him again. If you felt bad, you could have not accepted the gift. If you feel guilty now, just apologize to him for all that has happened and ask him to forgive you. Rid your soul of this burden. You can make it clear to him that you don't want to get back together but; definetly apologize for any wrongs you did to him and ask him to forgive you. Good luck.
2006-12-06 13:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing I can do to change my past. Sure, I wish things were different but what can I do?
2006-12-06 13:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my ex. But things happen and you can not fell bad all your life.
2006-12-06 13:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by dudettejj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say sorry to him , you could write to him or email
2006-12-06 13:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋