been married for 5 years. I met this girl 3 years ago, cheated with her on my wife, and asked for forgiveness when she found out. I did stay away from the other one for 2 years, till last spring. we met again, had that lust feeling overwhelm me again, and fell again. Now wife won't forgive me, and i have realized what an a s s hole i've been. What do i do now?
2006-12-06 05:07:15 · 14 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You never know - maybe given time she will reconsider. You have to prepare yourself in the event that she does not. All I can suggest is move on and if you are lucky enough to find a good woman that you love do yourself, and her, a favor and don't cheat.
2006-12-06 05:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a psychic counselor and spiritual advisor, but I have on occasion counseled married couples with your problem.....cheating once and getting forgivness was a true sign your wife loved you....cheating twice, however.....that's a huge mistake....even though you HAVE realized what you did, I am afraid you are fixing to sign some divorce papers.....
2006-12-06 05:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 21:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but you only get 3 strikes. You did the same thing twice. So you are out of the game cheating is something different
You have ****-**
2006-12-06 05:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep going with your life obviously u are not inlove w your wife, you still you go out have fun and trust me when you find that one person, you are not going to be able to stay away from her and you are not veen going to look at any other girl, trust me if she knows how to satisfy you to the point of keeping you wanting more, you will stay n not look around, obviously u and your wife dont have that anymore, so go on w your life, and let her go on to!good luck!
2006-12-06 05:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps monogamy is not your thing... Nothing's wrong with it, but think twice before you get married again. Hope your wife finds someone who is more inclined to be faithful.
2006-12-06 05:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be single dude. You're not cut out to be married. Cheat on her once? Ok..people make mistakes. But cheat on her twice? and with teh same chick?? She deserves better and you need to let her go.
2006-12-06 05:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do now is become unmarried and stay out of committed relationships until you are ready to settle down!
2006-12-06 05:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry man... if you can reject your lustful desires, it doesn't seem like cut out to be married. There are much joys that comes from marriage but also much sacrifices.
2006-12-06 05:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by Almack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you do if it was your wife doing the cheating?
2006-12-06 05:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋