But wouldn't they have know about it then? Because he didn't start to really cry and SCREAM until 3 weeks after he was born. I think she's hurting him!!!!
2006-12-06 05:02:49 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
he didn't start to cry a lot more and scream until 3 weeks later. and if his shoulder was broken when he was born, he would've been crying and stuff before he was 3 weeks old!!!
2006-12-06 05:18:56 · update #1
Oh yea.....you should see it......she'll hit my bro ont he face, bit him, make his glasses come off of his face and punches him. While she's doing all this, she's holding the baby........... My gosh.
2006-12-06 05:21:45 · update #2
Maybe you should ask her if she would like you to take her to the doctor and then the doctors can question her and you dont have to look like the bad one suggesting she would do such a thing! You really do need to do something though as the baby is helpless and needs help from yes YOU....you know about it so do something...
2006-12-06 05:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by rkonkin226 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is the baby going to the doctor do you know of for care for the shoulder? If it is the situation the doctor would be doing checkups to make sure it feeled right. I know it may sound harsh but I would call the social services and explin the situation to them and they can contact the doctor and such and it wil never be found out you were the one who made the call. Does the baby favor the shoulder and such. My sons shoulder makes a clicking sound sometimes and the doctors are just keeping an eye on it to see if it was the cartilidge that just wasnt formed completely but he goes on monday to have it checked again and xray if it dont sound any better. Good Luck
2006-12-06 05:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very possible for this to happen, i believe it is more common with arms, they are so tiny then and not very strong. And unless the babys shoulder looked out of place or was bruised docs might not have caught it. It could be that it was fractured during birth and then somthing as simple as setting the baby in the bath tub or holding him/her wrong could have broke it the rest of the way.
It sounds to me like you hate your SIL anyways and will believe anything negative before positive. If thats the case you should mind your own damn business she is doing the best she can....
If you are sure and its something with post partum then talk to your brother and ask how she has been behaving and let him know thats a possiblity.
2006-12-06 05:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She might have hurt him because how the baby is going to be born with a broken shoulder and don't scream and untill 3 weeks after he was born she must be crazy or she probably was mad with the baby daddy this why she try to hurt him.
2006-12-06 05:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by lil boosie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm, that is odd. I would try to check into the situation a little more. That is ridiculous if she is hurting the little guy. I would step in and check things out, while keeping yourself on the downlow at the same time. I would think the baby would have been crying from the get go. Plus, it shoud be having dr.s appts, and the dr should be checking all over for anything, sounds a bit odd to me.
2006-12-06 05:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by buckeyefever7 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, they should have known right after he was born when they checked him over. Accusing her of hurting him is a big deal so I would be careful. Maybe it was an accident and she's just scared to say anything. A doctor can tell roughly how long it has been broken for. Go to the doctor with her, if she hasn't gone already, and see what they say.
2006-12-06 05:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by mama3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's possible for the baby's collar bone to break during birth. But baby's bones are so flexible still that they usually mend on their own. As long as she's following up with her Dr.'s orders about caring for the baby and as long as the Dr. knows about the collar bone, more than likely it'll heal up soon. They baby might be crying and screaming for other reason, too... they're babies... it's sort of what they do :)
2006-12-06 05:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 03:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my little cousin , was borm , she was too big to come out so they had to litterally pull her out by her head and they dislocated her shoulder , and she had a massive bruse from the suction bruise on the side of her head, these things do happen, and its better then the baby dying before it can be saved !
2006-12-06 08:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by katy c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible. the baby should be in a cast. you can always report it. better to be safe than sorry.
your sister will get mad at you if she finds out.but if it is true you wont be going to a funeral. go to the corner store call for the pay phone. do not give name. untraceable. if something happens again call and report the same way. and tell them this is the second time do something now.
i hope you are wrong i feel for the spot you are in. but if you truly know your sister then listen to your heart your nephew will love you for it latter
2006-12-06 05:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by yogi bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋