If you are not financially secure enough to have a child, why are you having sex?

Question

Why kill a child just because you wanted to have sex, then realize you don't have enough money for a baby?

Is it that hard to just NOT HAVE SEX???

Answer 1

I have been telling people this for years.

Answer 2

I AM financially secure enough to use two forms of birth control, and I think my husband would be a little confused if we didn't have sex.

I don't think ANYONE feels financially secure enough to have a child. My brother and sister in law are a government employee and a chemical engineer who go on worldly vacations at least twice a year and THEY don't think they're financially secure enough to have a child. You learn to make your budget work.

Answer 3

You won't find any disagreement here, but I think that message needs to be posted everywhere.

People do NOT think.

I don't want kids - don't make them.
I want to drive slow - stay out of the left lane.
I don't want lung cancer - don't smoke.
I don't want to get fat - don't eat 5,000 calories a day.
I don't want to be in debt - don't shop for things you can't afford.

It just too much to ask for people to use their own brain. Common sense has to be written out in front of them at all times.
Studies have shown this is actually faulted from "new age parenting." Parents now want their children to make their own choices under 6 years of age - which is a joke. They get confused and can't make up their minds - now look at how those kids grow up today.

Answer 4

For the majority of people, if they waited until they were financially secure before having children, there would be very few children because no-one would be able to afford them!

Answer 5

The best way to prevent abortions, short of universal abstinence, is to make birth control readily available and cheap.

Answer 6

I have been saying this for years also!!!