You and husband/or wife are having problems. This is your sceanario:
Husband cheats with another woman, wife cheats with another man. Both women end up pregnant by the husband. Husband hits wife, wife leaves.
What would you do?
2006-12-06 04:54:25 · 16 answers · asked by --; cookie. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am thirteen ,I am askign this for a story, I am not married, but thats what my story is about and maybe this can give me some ideas.
2006-12-06 05:32:42 · update #1
Divorce him, have an abortion, never have to deal with him again.
2006-12-06 04:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Steven S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm guessing I'm just the friend right? If the women that left was my friend I'd give her a place to stay. Id try and comfort her for the time and don't beat her down with the words too much. When she's ready to talk then she'll let you know.
If I was other g/f I'd influence her to get outta the situation b/c if he hit his own wife he'll do it again.
If I was the wife that left I'd see if my parents or a good friend would take me in. Not the guy a slept with b/c that's not a good situation for you right now when you are pregnant. I'd figure out what I was going to do, and get advice from someone I trusted. If there wasn't anyone counseling.
I'd just be sorry that it happened b/c they should have tried marriage counseling before they did anything.
2006-12-06 13:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a paternity test and find out if the baby is indeed the husband. also did the husband find out about the wife's lover and thats why he hit her? If i was the husband i would try to work it out with my wife and dump the mistress. if i were the wife, i would dump the lover, seek help and try to work it out with the husband is i was still interested.
for the record, if someone cheats on you and you turn around and cheat on them, then you cant get mad at the partners cheating because you did the same thing!
2006-12-06 12:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband hits wife, wife leaves. Wife needs to stay gone and he needs to pay for the next 18 yrs of those children's lives support to the mothers. And the wife should have filed on him for domestic abuse would give her more leverage should the father attempt to seek custody of the child.
2006-12-06 12:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Emma,
First off I would leave and report the incident to authorities.
Second I would make sure your husband takes responsibility for the child after it's born. If there's cheating going on then something is missing from your relationship. Abuse is unacceptable. You don't deserve this and should never put up with it.
2006-12-06 13:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to your husband you both make mistakes. If you leave him forever the mistress won and you are the looser. Take note you both got pregnant and both cheated each other. Again go back and mend your relationship its not too late.
2006-12-06 13:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by luckyman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all adult infidelity is not a right thing to do......i would never think of cheating with someone....that is a sin and that is not right....
why stay in a relationship when both arent happy? get out of it and find someone new.........but ppl who are married ....they stay for the sake of their children...even tho both arent happy or one of them isnt.........but the right way to do is....to talk and find out what both of u guys want.....and then settle for an answer.......
abuse is not a good thing either..........women tend to stay in an abusive relationship because they feel they are in love w/ him so they jus stay n get beaten up........they think they could change him but come on reality check.....once u lay a hand on someone...u will keep doin it...
2006-12-06 13:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by pinkbear218 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you do? You've already split up. Get on with your life. Raise the baby to be a better person that it's parents were.
2006-12-06 12:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave, have my baby and raise him/her the very best I could. There's alot to be learned from this and I'd not repeat the same mistakes twice.
2006-12-06 13:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce ur husband and see if u want to keep the baby or not then stop the drama!
2006-12-06 13:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave
2006-12-06 12:57:00 · answer #11 · answered by Morena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋