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2006-12-06 04:31:08 · 27 answers · asked by Jacklyn 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Here is the thing Abortion sucks only because on the end the little baby to be becomes the victim and there is alot of other things too.
To me if you can not handle the baby and wont be a good mother and can not handle the child finacialy well it will be a hard life but abortion can be a answer but so can adoption.
Let me tell you something from experience.
I am 24 years my fiance and i 6 years ago did the bad and she got preg. well after a while we thought it would be better to get an abortion. lucky for us we where broke because if i never got to see my baby who will be 5 in jan i do not know what else i would have been put here for children can be a hassel but as long as your try it will show his smile his face his kisses his love his hugs his everything is the reason i get up in the morning he is the greatest gift i was ever given.
Life is great and getting to give it bring it and teach it is the best part of it.
Even if you brough life and gave it to someone else remember at some point everyone and eveything no matter your religion your beliefes or you way everything has a path and if the path is to be withsomeone else that it shall be.
Its hard to take life i my self am not against it but just make sure you do not make the mistake because that being can only be once every person is there own you can never bring that baby back.
Lenny
2006-12-06 05:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by swvader 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think abortion is one of the hardest decisions to ever make. It is something that you will never forget. The pain may ease over time but there will always be things that remind you. And then when and if you do have children of your own and see how wonderful and beautiful they are your heart will ache thinking about what you gave up. You will have dreams about the baby soon after and maybe for years. It is not an easy thing to do in any shape or form.
It is not my place to tell other people what they can and can't do. That is up to the woman. Although I feel that you should only be able to have an abortion in the first trimester unless necessary for other medical reasons or rape/incest. As the baby grows past the first trimester it is just more cruel and even harder on the mother, emotionally.
I have had expereince with abortion and I know my views may be different from others, but that's how I feel.
2006-12-06 12:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by megkenzee 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
From my older sisters perspective, you'll regret it. My sister had 2 (one at 17 the next at 21yrs) she is 34 now and she is more settled and mature. Recently divorced but was married for 10 years and the last 7 yrs she tried to have a baby and nothing. She still wants one if she gets remarried but she doesn't think its going to happen. She's accepted just being an Aunt to my kids but I see she blames herself alot for not being able to have babies and has said that is her biggest regret. She would have preferred to have had the baby with no man than to be married and no baby.
If your going to do a grown up thing like have sex you better make sure you know the consequences if there are any accidents. You better be ready to act like an adult and be responcible... how dare anyone believe that aborting is birth control?
I don't want to take birth control and my husband doesn't want any more kids (we have 2 so far) so I tell him "well you know what you have to do" 'cos I did my part. When he had our first accident (opps *Surprise*) we were both just starting college. I didn't want to live with the regret I saw my sister in so I chose to be responcible. I dropped out of college my hubby continued and I couldn't imagine my life without my 2 surprises. Now its my turn and I am back at school. If you have a doomed outlook on this pregnancy maybe thats the problem... think positive life goes on, you'll struggle a bit but you can do it. My little sister did it w/o a man at 20... but like I said we didn't want to feel the regret like we saw our older sis deal with. THINK ABOUT IT, SERIOUSLY! It will be a life altering decision.
2006-12-06 13:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't like abortion, however there are circumstances where it is needed. It needs to be a safe, legal option for those situations where it is called for. On the other hand, it should not be a "fall back" form of birth control nor should it EVER be promoted as birth control in any circumstances.
Strange to say, but I would prefer to see the "morning after" pill distrubuted for free on the streets and schools.
2006-12-06 12:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is personal choice. I think women should have the right to choose. Nobody else can make that sort of decision for anyone else. Would I do it? No. I think for me it is the wrong choice. But I will respect every other woman's right to choose. It has to be a difficult and scary place to be when forced with making a decision about having an abortion. I haven't ever been there. But Being married in a stable healthy relationship makes making my decision easier. But younger, not in a stable relationship could have an affect on things.
2006-12-06 12:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by Amy R 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What is the deal with you so called pro-life people saying they are against it except for if a person is raped, incest, birth defects, etc. You all are a bunch of hypocrites. It is still a baby no matter what the circumstances are. What the baby is no longer innocent and does not deserve to live if it is a product of rape or incest? That is a hypocritical statement if I ever heard one. I'm not saying if I am for or against it because that is my personal opinion but if you're going to take a stand and voice it at least don't be hypocritical about it.
2006-12-07 02:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by shannonmangan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's murder. It's not the baby's fault that that A. The couple didn't use protection or B. The protection failed. So why should the baby pay the consequences? It's honestly not that hard to simply carry it to term and then just give it up for adoption.
People who abort their babies are selfish, irresponsible killers.
It is only ok to abort if:
1. Mother is raped
2. Pregnancy endangers mother's life
3. There's something incredibly wrong with the baby
...and even in those instances, it's still not REALLY ok.
Also, I absolutely hate it when people are like "RAR IT'S A WOMAN'S PERSONAL CHOICE AND ONLY HER OPINION MATTERS". That's so stupid. That's like me killing a guy and then saying it was my personal choice. A fellow human's life does not belong to you, it should not be up to you whether to end it or not, even if you conceived it and even if it's inside you. You made the choice to have sex, so you should be obligated to see the pregnancy through. Show some responsibility for your actions.
It is not a matter of opinion and personal choice. It's a matter of right and wrong, murder or life.
2006-12-06 12:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by G 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No offense, but I think it's a cowardly way to kill life. (If it is you considering aborting) You should not have irresponsibly gotten pregnant. There are too many people who would adopt a baby that can't have children. if you don't want to accept the fact that you were blessed, pass the blessing on.
2006-12-06 12:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is murder. There are only 3 instances where I could see abortion as "acceptable".
1. The woman is unable to survive pregnancy and/or birth.
2. The pregnancy was the result of rape and/or incest.
3. The mother is a drug addicted whore and the baby would be born as an addict, have extreme difficulty with daily life and/or deformed and otherwise unable to function.
2006-12-06 12:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by Chelsey 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
its murder there is just no excuse for it. there are plenty of ppl out there that are willing to adopt that baby b/c they can't have their own rape victims and incest ppl there are still ppl that would want those baby's. In MY OPINION ppl who choose to do this thing are just being selfish cuz they were ready to have sex but not have a baby, or doesn't want to hurt the way their body looks sorry that goes hand in hand. it should be illegal. why would you want to kill a baby? what if your mother decided to abort you?
2006-12-06 12:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋