Works nights sleeps during the day doesn't help out at all and complains I don't spend anytime with her. Laziest women in the world. I love her though don't know if I am in love though.
2006-12-06 04:22:54 · 12 answers · asked by M.D. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Also there was a guy that got her attn. 20 years younger. No sex but kissing and petting. She apologized said it was a mistake butnow is less intimate
2006-12-06 04:29:51 · update #1
I am a mother of three and i have been married for 12 years. I, as a mother, can't imagine working nights with kids ans a husband. I believe that my family is my first priority and I can't take care of home if I'm working nights. My marriage won't work and my kids won't have a mother. I believe that if your wife changed her hours or found a job better suited for her lifestyle, your marriage may improve. Then you might not see her as being lazy (I'm guessing you feel that way because she has no time to take care of home due to sleep), and you may possibly realize you are in love with her.
2006-12-06 04:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by shellese2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ya know its a two way street here kiddo. Ever think she may be feeling the same thing as you? Perhaps its time for a little break from the k ids and house. A week-end get a way may just be your answer. What about putting some romance back into your relationship. Surprising what it will do for you, her and the kids. I've been divorced and I really do not think its the best answer to any problem that can easily be solved. Give it a go--ya never know.
2006-12-06 04:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by sylviavnpttn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey buddy, it's worth it. It boils down to conflicting schedules. She works at nite n u work durin d day. No time there. She's sleeping in the a.m. while ur up during the day. She complains that u don't spend enuff time w/ her but she doesn't see the schedule confilcts. All in all, she misses you. After 5 kids, don't u think u miss each other for not seeing enuff of each other?
2006-12-06 04:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by Seth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is best for your children? That is the number one thing to consider. See if you can sit down and talk to her about this and maybe try marriage counseling. But if that is not an option, maybe a trial separation??
2006-12-06 04:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by MandaPanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, you're one for the books. 10 yrs, with a kid e/other year. Let's see how old are these children? AND she works nites?
And SHE's lazy??? When does she find time to breath, AND rest? Are YOU worth it?
2006-12-06 04:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to change her hours and make an effort to become a part of the family. If she doesnt want to then shes not worth it.
2006-12-06 04:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she works nights? then how do u justify calling her lazy? maybe she just needs to work a different shift so you two can spend more time together.
2006-12-06 04:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your kids aint 18 you need to keep her or she will take you to te bank. just cause she's not a good wife dont mean she aint a good mother. trust melife
2006-12-06 04:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by young one1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Took you five kids before you came to this conclusion???
2006-12-06 06:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider the kids first. that is the most important thought here.
2006-12-06 04:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋