Everyone goes out to have fun without me, and noone calls me!
What can i do to see if my friends like me or not??
If they dont like me what do i do?
Please help!!
Thnx
2006-12-06 03:57:26 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get people who will go on outing with you e-mail some people that answer this question
(not including me for I have a strict mother who watches my every move and will not allow me to give my e-mail out)
and see if the will be e-mail buddies
2006-12-06 04:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Not Known To Me. The Voter ;~`}= 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is not clear, in that you don't say if you have friends at work, at school, or in your neighborhood. If the group of the 'everyone' you refer to simply doesn't ask you to come along, it could mean that you are not outgoing, or perhaps they don't think you'd like to go with them. Perhaps you could single one of the group out and ask if you're not asked to go along because of some specific reason.
Sometimes a person who is quiet and just sits back and takes it all in is left out of the action.
To be certain you want to go with the group, you should ask what all they do. It could be you're better off not being with the 'friends' you refer to. Just because they seem to be having fun, doesn't mean you'd feel comfortable if you joined them. Chat with the one you single out to ask about the group activity long enough to determine if what they think is fun would seem so to you.
Each group has a leader who influences most of the activity. Can you tell what kind of person that is? Just going along is not always the best thing for you to do. There are a lot of people in this World. Look beyond the group you refer to. Go to the library, or go to where others are doing what you like to do. There, you're likely to find friends you can be comfortable with.
Remember: Birds of a feather flock together. That means that all birds are not alike and do not hang together. People are different, too. Find some friends you can be with that match your personal 'feathers'.
2006-12-06 04:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by TexasStar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm not to be mean or anything but id say that if they are going out without u and nobody calls ya then well u may need to try and get some new friends. cuz they probably don't like u. sorry
2006-12-06 04:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Communication goes both ways. From what is sounds like your not inviting them to do stuff with you. That makes them think u don't like them too. So stop whining and pick up that phone. Invite them over to watch a movie.
2006-12-06 04:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if your friends doesn't like you than their not your friends. Try finding other friends that might want to do things that you want to do and they want you to do too.
2006-12-06 04:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by aznchick615 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honset to your friends go up to them and ask them why they don't call you just stand up for youself trust me i was where you were at now. Just go up to them.
2006-12-06 04:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jacklyn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sure someone thinks the world of you.
just try associating yourself with a diffrent crowd. the ppl you spoke about don't sound very deserving of your friendship
2006-12-06 04:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by myfianceisamonkey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AND YOU'RE PROBABLY RIGHT. YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY TRYING TO HANG WITH THE WRONG CROWD. IF THEY LIKE YA THEY WOULD CALL YA, PLAIN AND SIMPLE. GET A NEW CIRCLE OF FRIENDS.
2006-12-06 04:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by BOOMBOOMBILLY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask them why they dont call you and dont want to hang out with you, tell them they hurt your feelings....
2006-12-06 04:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
find friends who actually apreciate you ...... and obviously your friends right now dont so ......
true friends wouldnt ditch you....
2006-12-06 04:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋