If you met someon who was a really great person, you have never had a greater relationship than with this person you are with. You have never meet anyone more amazing than this person
BUT the sex suck big time no matter how much you try to teach them they just dont get it. I mean you;ve tried every thing from watchin porns together to going to toy stores.
What would you do?
2006-12-06 03:50:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This is just a hypathetical question. I just want to know what people would do in this situation. (Its not about me i am single.....4 now)
2006-12-06 04:00:32 · update #1
I would absolutely not stay in the relationship. Whether people like to admit it or not, sex IS a big part of an intimate relationship. So many people end up having affairs because they are not happy in the bedroom. There are lots of really great people in the world, but it doesn't mean they are all compatible with eachother. A relationship is taken to a completely different level when two people enjoy eachother. Just like you wouldn't stay with someone who's great in bed because they don't challenge your mind... its hard to stay with someone who challenges your mind but who isn't great in bed. Great doesn't mean porn star or marathon man... it means that person understands and fulfills your needs in whichever way works for you.
2006-12-06 04:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kim G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me personally, I wouldn't put so much emphasis on sex but concentrate on those things that makes this person more amazing than anyone else - the laughter, the sense of connection, the good times outside of the bedroom. Although sex should be an integral part of any relationship, it should not "make or break" the relationship. Use your heart to approach this person, not your genitals.
2006-12-06 04:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by behrmark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay because i love that person. relationships shouldn't be based solely on sex, but other things as well. if the relationship is based solely on sex, then u wont have anything else to fall back on when the sex gets boring.
2006-12-06 04:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not like the sex thing lasts forever anyway, I stay with them.
2006-12-06 06:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with them ansd tell them to make an effort
2006-12-06 06:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a counsellor together, or on a couples' retreat for such a situation.
it sounds like you both need to adapt to each other.
2006-12-06 03:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to sound shallow...but i would tell him striaght up that we aren't sexually connecting and remain friends with him, but move on...i'm sure there is another really great guy out there that could please the person sexually...so thats what i would do and hope for the best!
2006-12-06 04:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by tigerlily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be gone, I want a lover that knows what she is doing, no time for teaching. Been there and done that. :)
2006-12-06 08:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it really doesnt matter, if you love that person and see your self with him/her then you know that you should stay with that person sex does not matter
2006-12-06 04:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by Juan G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is a phase. You will be doing a lot more than sex.
2006-12-06 03:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋