how do a divorce single mother (with children) to tell a man who is unmarried that she is interested in him. it is difficult for her to start a conversation because of her present suitation.
2006-12-06 03:47:26 · 9 answers · asked by jokerpro2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What's wrong with being a divorced single MOM. Stop feeling so INSECURE and live your life to the fullest. The only problem with your present situation is your being so INSECURE. Go for it.
2006-12-06 03:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by Monty L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would hope she would learn to speak proper English, so as not to betray her lack of an education. Men aren't much interested in uneducated single moms -- historically, men regard other men's children as big time baggage. Your question should read:
How does a divorced single mom begin a conversation with men? Notice the verb. DOES, not "do".
In your place, I think I'd forget trying to snag a guy, and I'd go back to school at night, improve my skills, improve by job opportunities and improve my salary. In five years, which are going to pass anyway, I could be top of the heap....) This would also improve my ability to attract a better class of men....... And for sure, I wouldn't have any more children during this time........ The only thing worse than being a single mom, is being an emotionally needy, black, ignorant ,uneducated single mom. Most of those important ones, you can change if you have some guts, hon... Good luck, sweetie....
2006-12-06 04:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see anything wrong with being either divorced or being a single mom. I am assuming that you have not lied so far about your situation but even if you did, simply say that there is something else he needs to know about you and then tell about the divorce and the children. Men are very open minded these days about single moms.
2006-12-06 03:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hear to what he likes to do in his spare time. There must be some thing you share a mutual activity in. Then whilst the time is optimal, initiate a communicate approximately it. point out which you may choose to bypass see the classic motor vehicle practice (or besides the fact that it quite is). Make it an somewhat "mild" date the 1st time, like 2 pals fascinated in the comparable element. Pay your very own way. See what happens from there.
2016-10-17 21:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you afraid of? Whomever you date will find out anyway. The best thing is to be honest and let that person decide if they want to continue further. Your present situation is irrelevant.
2006-12-06 03:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know this man talk to him as your friend. If you don't know him walk up to him and ask him out for coffee. If you are living with someone get rid of him before moving on. Remember you are single.
2006-12-06 03:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty. Rumor has it men like women that take the first step. No easier for a man to ask a woman out then us ask them out.
2006-12-06 03:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by jbenishmlt 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be honest and just tell him. The worst thing he can say is no. But if you do nothing, then you'll never know! Just go for it!
2006-12-06 04:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is interested in you,maybe you should just let him approach you.Or maybe you could just give him clues your interested in him,by eye contact ,body language,just little gestures.
2006-12-06 03:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋