i brook up with my man, cause of this! we were having sex and we did not have a condum on and he just out of the blue said i am gonna get you pregant right now, i was into the situation thing and then when it was done i was so pissed i told him it was over, what should i have done?
2006-12-06 03:22:25 · 20 answers · asked by Kelly forever 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Used a condom. Can't get mad at him for knocking you up if it happens because you are just as responsible for being irresponsible as he is. You knew going into it, that not using a condom increases your risks of becoming pg.
2006-12-06 03:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Too late to worry about what you "should have done."
But if it has been less than 72 hours since you had unprotected sex, then run out right *this second* and get the "morning after" pill, also called "Plan B" contraceptives, or emergency contraceptives. Take them the second you get them, but hurry, because every minute counts. You can get them at any pharmacy. You may have to ask the pharmacist to get them, because they probably keep them behind the counter.
Now it is time to focus on the here and now. Make an appointment at Planned Parenthood TODAY and get on birth control pills. Start taking them every day without fail at the same time of day. That way, next time you want to have sex, you will be protected.
As for this guy, he sounds irresponsible at the best. I would seriously lose his number. Since you are not married to him, he probably wouldn't have had anything to do with a child he impregnanted you with.
2006-12-06 03:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by EmLa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be silly and throw away a good relationship because he is not ready.
give him time, he just isnt ready yet but he will soon be, you shouldnt rush into these things, espeicaly when one of the two involved is not ready.
to be honest you should be thanking this guy for wanting to use a condom and not get your preg, that is very mature of the guy, most guys dont care they just want the enjoyment of sex and let you worry about the aftermath.
but yer - call him, talk it over, he may well want kids just not yet, i know you want them but you can wait a few more months.
infact it would take longer to find a man who wants kids and build up a relationship to the stage where you having them then if you just give him time it could well be sooner then you think.
2006-12-06 03:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with him? I think you made a good decision. He should have never done that to you, especially at that moment. Having kids is something that needs to be talked about with the 2 of you, not while having sex. He was very wrong.
2006-12-06 03:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Im sorry to say but you really shouldnt be mad at him. He may or may not have been joking but you didnt use a condom and even though you were caught up you still didnt stop him when he said that to you. You need to talk to him and find out how he really feels, does he really want a baby? do you? You also need to find out soon if you are pregnant because there is a chance you are since not using a condom. good luck
2006-12-06 03:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Beth B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heat of passion is not the time to be making life-altering decisions. This guy is not a good partner and I don't think he showed you any respect there. After all, it's not him who would have to carry the baby! I think you're better off without him.
2006-12-06 03:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by KC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why so sad about breaking up with him???? As a guy myself, i was taught to have safe sex. Protect yourself if you think that you are not clean. Of course the most important is to have sex with the one you are married with and be loyal. Your guy really have to be responsible for something that he done on you.
2006-12-06 03:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by kenwai76 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't get pregnant or catch a disease, just dump him.
If you got pregnant, take him to court for child support.
If you caught a disease, get treatment and report him to the health authorities.
2006-12-06 03:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u luv him? if u don't mak him guard his **** up no one likes da responsibility get a new man n make sure he feels da same as ur dumb ***
2006-12-06 03:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you mad at him? You should be angry with yourself for putting yourself in that position to start with. You have no one to blame but yourself. You should have used a condom. Period.
2006-12-06 03:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋