My friend is going through a divorce and the wife of his friend of 25 years has made is clear she wants to have sex. She bought a new car and asked him to ride. She pulled off the side of the road and nailed him with a passionate kiss, reached between his legs and told him that's what she wanted for Christmas. About 15 years ago, he was invited into their bedroom by both of them and had a threesome. What should he do? He doesn't want to tell his friend b/c he doesn't want them to get divorced too.
2006-12-06 03:17:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No the woman is not me. I don't know her. The man is a co-worker of mine.
2006-12-06 03:24:51 · update #1
He should just ask her straight-out "what is going on?" They may have an open relationship, or this may be a fantasy they are acting out where she seduces his friend then comes home to him. If they had a threesome years ago than they are probably comfortable with him and they could easily have chosen him as the one to fulfill this fantasy. If this is the case the best route would be for them to let him in on it, anyway.
If this isn't the case then he should leave well enough alone. Doing your buddy's wife without him okaying it is not cool.
2006-12-06 10:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest being loyal to his friend and stay away from the wife. Being invited for a 3-way is different. The friend was included, this would be sneaking behind his back. Don't do it!
2006-12-06 03:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay the temptation is there because of 15 years ago & I think you should just stay out of it cause it sounds like they are really open & it could get you into a lot of mess yourself that is not needed.
2006-12-06 03:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it,you were invited 15yrs ago,but if you decide not to?buy him some viagra for xmas,you be doing 2birds with one stone.
2006-12-06 03:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by siaosi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was my friend, I would tell him. He may care and he may not, if his wife is getting gangbanged with him there. He knows what type of women she is.
2006-12-06 03:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It up to him to decide what he wants.
Why is he sharing this stuff with you seems like a more interesting question.
2006-12-06 03:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bang her, tell his friend, hope for the best.
2006-12-06 03:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmhmmmm a friend of a friend of a friend of a friend.. is this Woman you are talking about you?
2006-12-06 03:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend should make his own decision.
2006-12-06 03:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to avoid her ...........period..........
2006-12-06 03:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋