This woman i have been telling you about smses me all the time. Even when i don't sms her first. She wants me to keep in touch with her and let her know how i am and what i am up to. This is the first time we actually started smsing each other during the holidays. Last year i went away to find myself again after she started touching me and flirting with me in front of everyone. This year she approached me again when i told her i dont want to come back to where she is. She phoned and said i should work for her. Later on i told her again i wanted to go. Then she said that no matter where i went she will follow me, because she is not going to lose me again! She told me about her boyfriend, but still keeps on wanting to touch me, hug me and have me close to her. When other girls are talking to me she gets jealous and lean against me, or stay near. People asked me how long we've been in a relationship, if i slept with her, when are we gonna get married. i don't know what she want
2006-12-06 03:05:15 · 7 answers · asked by Xena (lesbian) 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well, talk to her... simply talk to her..it looks as though you haven't even spoken to her about it at all....
2006-12-06 03:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh sounds like a crazy one. tell her straight (no punn intended) up that you are not interested. If she cant except just a friendship then there is no reason for you to to continue a relationship of any kind. She needs to respect your feelings. dont answer her calls and dont hang out with her.
2006-12-06 03:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its more about power and control and the need to possess you it could turn obsessive be careful
2006-12-06 03:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by swolfshields 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds stupid. Wondering if you are very young or like pain. Nothing like someone zapping you with their lack of real availability.
2006-12-09 04:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by st.uncumber 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good for you! be happy with who u are. im straight but even if your a lesbian dont worry! theres hope
2006-12-06 03:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that isn't fair for her to be playing games with you like that. i would suggest finding someone who doesn't pull stuff like that. you want someone to treat you well.
2006-12-06 03:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask her?
2006-12-06 03:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by Daddy of 5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋