For the past 4 months I have followed my dream of becoming an exotic dances at a strip club but my boyfriend doesnt know. Do I tell him and he'll make me stop or keep doing what I love to do?
2006-12-06 02:45:20 · 5 answers · asked by Sexy Blonde 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that you should be honest with him. Honesty and truthfulness are important in a relationship. He should be able to accept your decision if he really loves you.
2006-12-06 02:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in a relationship and you have not told him the truth .. He deserves to know what you are doing... If there is nothing wrong with your dancing, then you should have no fear...
Are you afraid he will not approve???
I don't doubt he will be upset, as you have lied to him by omission...
You need to be upfront and tell all. ...otherwise you have no business being in a relationship.. as the whole thing is based on lies......
You have to have respect and trust for anything to work in a relationship...
2006-12-06 10:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love this guy...i suggest you tell him..keeping secrets is never a good idea....if dancing is that important to you...he obviously isnt...move on
2006-12-06 10:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U ACTUALLY HAVE TO QUIT THAT JOB CUZ MOST MEN DONT LIKE THAT OR IF NOT JUST TELL ITZ BETTER U TELL HIM THAN SOME CRAZY OLD GUY THAT SAW U AT THAT CLUB. SO TELL HIM OR QUIT UR JOB AND DO SOMTHIN BETTER WITH YOUR LIFE.OK
2006-12-06 10:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Carla Niqqaa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is your boyfriend more important or the dancing?
2006-12-06 10:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋