Am 24 years old, and the girl i love is 38 years old, we have been in love since 2 years. We are facing some problems from people around. My family are not agreeing at all. Her family are accepting this fact but slowly. We love each other, we respect each other, and understand each other in everything. She was my coordinator at university for 4 years. Our relation started in the middle of the 3rd year of university.
2006-12-06 02:44:58 · 8 answers · asked by GIO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you two feelling it, then that is all really matter
2006-12-06 02:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you might find that the difference is small now but will be more noticeable after a few years...
There will be blanks in your interests and common denominators.. If you are mature enough to make the commitment to her for life then you should continue the relationship.
If you are afraid of flak from family then you are not ready to make this move..
A person's insight, maturity and experience guides them to the right decisions in life.
Ask yourself the questions... are you 100% ready for this and all it entails.....
2006-12-06 11:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hooked up with my husband when I was 43 and he was 28.That was 13 years ago and we are happier than ever.Don't let other people dictate how you live your life.It would be sad to lose the love of your life just because others are narrow-minded.Go for it.
2006-12-06 12:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is to short to worry about what everyone else think. They arent on the relationship the 2 of you are. See what happens.
2006-12-06 11:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your girlfriend..sounds like she's a lucky woman.
I always dated 10 yrs & above as an 18 yr old & up,
now that I'm in my 40's, I'd love to have 10 yrs younger...
nothing wrong ..age is just a number...
don't let your family interfere...they'll get over it or loose you..
& I bet they wouldn't loose you...they just think they're helping, but you need to speak up to them...
after all, it is your life, right ?
2006-12-06 11:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should do it first and then care about what other people think. after u do it, people will have to except it because it already happened. but currently, people can try to influence u to change ur mind. get it over with. sorry if u think i'm rushing, but that's the best i can do.
2006-12-06 10:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by sexy_stud829 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was 27 and I was 43 when we met. We are now in our 8th year together. We have no problems...
2006-12-11 04:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by miladybc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart!! You can never please people enough....
2006-12-06 10:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋