im more scared this time than first dnt know why im only 6 weeks but every thought u could have am having
2006-12-06 02:11:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Could you repeat that question in English please?
2006-12-06 02:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I'm 36 weeks with number 2, my 1st is nearly 2. You need to relax and try to stay stress free. You are still very early. My biggest thought at this time is how the older one will deal with the new one. Talk to you husband about your fears, other moms, your own mom, your doctor. If you didn't have any problems the 1st time, most likely you won't have any this time. I didn't and am doing ok this time. Remember to eat healthy and exercise what dr says is ok. This is a very special time. Enjoy the last moments with your 1st as an only child and try to get that one excited and encouraged about having a new sibling. Let that one help with picking cloths and decorations, buy a baby doll and show how you'll change it and feed it and take care of it. If you have a girl now, really let her be involved by giving her her own baby to care for. Have fun with this time. I love being pregnant (well for the most part lol). Remember to take time to pamper yourself when you can and to help make you feel better put on make up and fix your hair and feel pretty. You have 8 months to go, don't worry so much. I know that is easier said than done, but you gotta try. You want to have an easy comfortable pregnancy. Remember to talk to your dr about your concerns. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-12-06 02:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by ribbitt_ribbitt_83 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in exactly the same situation as you. I'm 9 weeks PG, with a little girl who will make 5 not too far after the baby is born next year. There are alot of changes for this pregnancy, like my husband and I being married and my not being so young anymore. these are both good things. I'm expecting to be looked at more as an equal this pregnancy. Anywho..getting off subject haha...I'm still extremely nervous about the whole pregnancy and birthing thing. 1st time I lived on birthing and baby shows...I have not watched one yet for this pregnancy. I just found out though so I'm still adjusting. Maybe you just need to get used to the idea as well...and remind yourself how much fun you've most likely had with the first child and you get to have that joy all over again...lucky women we are
2006-12-06 07:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by lilpinklady2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm roughly 5 or 6 weeks too and I am very worried too. I don't know if you're worried about the aches, pains, changes, labour and the "after", or if like me you're worried something is just going to go majorly wrong.
I keep thinking about miscarriage, lack of foetal heartbeat on the first scan (which seems so so so far away at the moment), spina bifida, Downs, you name it.
I think it's because I love and enjoy my first so much, the possibility of having to grieve for this unborn child is overwhelming. I'm trying to relax as much as I can but it's not easy. I'm seeing my doc tomorrow for the booking in, I'll mention it. You should mention your fears too. We'll be just fine.
Take care and congratulations!
2006-12-06 08:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by Elsa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
I am pregnant with my second child, my 1st is 6 now and this is a scary thing! I sympathise - although all I can say is go with the flow baby and check your spellings before submitting a question sweetie - as other people are making fun of you. I am 5 wks from having my next little boy and I am terrified as I have forgotten everything it seems! Will keep my fingers crossed for you though - good luck!!
2006-12-06 03:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you are feeling. I'm am 10 weeks pregnant with my 2ND, my daugther will be 3 next week. and i am scared stiff! i think its because i know what to expect, the sleepless nights, the bottles, and all that. but at the same time i know how to do all those things now, and im more prepared knowing what to expect! i know its going to be hard, but that's the thing, this time i KNOW! last time i just presumed i knew what i was letting myself in for.
i hope that helps you, and your not the only one having those thoughts. just keep thinking that 2nd time round you will be more prepared, and more knowledgeable of your baby's needs.
2006-12-06 02:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by lucy h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep Calm, relax and try not to worry, although I know it's hard not to - I was definitely more scared second time round.
This one might be a little faster in arriving but if you are scared of something in particular, talk to your doctor or midwife, they will be able to help!
Good Luck
2006-12-06 03:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by lothlorien_priestess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my second was a nightmare 2 have but my 3rd was a doddle every 1 is different u just got 2 go with the flow and face it when u get there just wait till ur huge again and carnt be arsed any more u,ll be saying bring it on !!!!!! good luck and dont worry
2006-12-06 09:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by sheila n chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel.im pregnant with my 3 and it seems like after the first it gets even scarier.i think its because you know whats going to happen now.i mean with the first preg you really have no idea whats going to happen so its not as scary.but this time you know how it all works and its kinda scary.plus you now know how hard it is to take care of a child so its hard to imagine that you can take care of 2 of them!!but dont worry!!it all will be fine trust me!
2006-12-06 02:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by these r my people 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I'm also 6 weeks with my second child, and I'm worse this time, i think it's because you know every thing, like how you are going to feel, you know the pain you are going to experience. where as last time you didn't have a clue.
2006-12-06 03:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by Dreamah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you scared of the pregnancy, the birth, or new motherhood?
Did you have a difficult experience with any of these last time around?
If so, it might help to talk it over with your midwife as soon as you are "booked".
2006-12-06 09:10:18 · answer #11 · answered by purplepadma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋