I am a transvestite that wears panties every day. This is the second time this has happened. I don't know how (although I suspect it happened when I was trying to unjam the copier), but it is obvious that a female coworker know I wear panties. Has she told everyone else at the office? I really don't want to be known as the office sissy even though that's what I am. I feel completely humiliated right now and I just don't know what to think/what to do.
2006-12-06 02:05:22 · 16 answers · asked by Sissyboy 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
You know, I am into humiliation, but every day all day at work is a lot of shame to take in.
2006-12-06 02:10:52 · update #1
First off, it wasn't like you were flashing your panties around. What is kept under your clothes should be a secret. You didn't invite her to look at your undergarments. Secondly, she should be adult enough to leave you alone, and if she does tell people, (and why they would really believe her anyways) that is grounds for sexual harassment.
Hey, you are who you are and why should you have to repress it? You were discreet and besides, what happens outside of your workplace is your own business!
2006-12-06 02:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by everfair 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think a lot of fellow employess might look at him wearing ladies panties and at best laugh at him. Especialy the male employees. You can have a lot of light hearted fun with him. For instance if you talk to him tell him something like did you know the victoria secret semi annual sale started today. giggles
2016-05-22 23:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really is no ones business what you wear. If they have a problem with you wearing panties, then it is that person who has a problem. I wear panties and pantyhose everyday even at work and no one cares. Don't forget, if they rag on you, there is a term that can be used...sexual harassment.
2006-12-09 07:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest wearing low waist panties at work so they won't show when you bend over and your pants slightly slip down. Maybe your co worker hasn't said anything if this has happened twice already, but if she did and someone comes up to you and make a comment, just say you bought the panties to match the bra you're wearing LOL!
2006-12-06 03:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by carmelapple2001us 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Personally, I wouldn't care what my coworkers wore under their trousers. If anyone does, that's because they are mentally tiny. If they harass you, take it up legally because that is against the law.
At any rate, I don't think transvestites are sissies. They must be very brave to face all the crappy idiots out in there who are unable to cope with anything unusual.
2006-12-06 02:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by Gallifrey's Gone 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As long as there not MY panties, you can do whatever you want. I can't imagine her telling your co-workers, though. What's the point? The rumors would only cause all sorts of nastiness, maybe even a lawsuit. Nah, she probably wouldn't tell anyone...well maybe one other person. Besides, she may have some secrets of her own that she desn't want getting out.
2006-12-06 02:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Has she told you she knows? If I were you and wanted to wear panties 24/7, I would wear bikini hipsters. You have to look a long way down to notice them.
2006-12-06 14:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sandie 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Believe me...she is telling people, but act like you dont care...why should you??? If you like panties, be proud...dont show shame because they will then laugh at you. At least when you show confidence, they will turn away when you stare at them
2006-12-06 02:08:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You aren't into humiliation? Some people are in your position...just asking. Cuz then you might enjoy them making fun of you.
2006-12-06 02:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are on your own on this one because there's simply no answer except to ask why you are getting jammed in the copier?
2006-12-06 02:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋