ME AND MY KIDS R STAYIN WITH A GUY WHO I HAVE KNOWN ALL MY LIFE, AND I AM DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH A MAN WHO IS RIGHT NOW OVER 1000 MILES AWAY, AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. I'D LOVE TO MOVE OUT BUT GOT NO WHERE TO GO-SO WHAT THE HELL DO I DO?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
2006-12-06 01:59:56 · 6 answers · asked by countrygal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have two choices - stay or leave. And we can't help you make that decision. I would move back in with my mom, I don't know if that's an option for you though. If he abuses you or the kids, you have to leave for your own safety. If you're just not "in love" with this guy anymore though, you need to stay for the sake of the kids.
2006-12-06 02:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay you have to MOVE. that's a must. is he abusive? if so check out the domestic violence here on the internet or call the operator for a location. they can help.
deeply in love... hmm sounds good to me. has this guy talked to you about you leaving the other man? dont leave going to the other man if he doesnt love you the same. but leave this one definitely. LEAVE DONT waste anymore time. read iylana vyzant meantime book. very good and inspiring. will make you leave and do what is right for YOU!
2006-12-06 02:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to go in one ear and out the other, but why don't you and your children just be independent? Do you HAVE to have a man? What kind of message are you giving to your children, staying with "a guy" that you're not married to and I assume is not their father?
2006-12-06 02:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since u have kids i think u are old enough to tke ur on decisions.s wake up one and make up ur mind if the man u luv is willing to accept then u follow ur heart cos someone that treats u like his property is not worty to have u.
2006-12-06 02:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by Nwankwo F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this man you are REALLY in Love with is really in love with you then why on earth isn't he helping you move away from the abuse and safely into his arms?
2006-12-06 02:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by nancy w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start saving your money so you and your kids can move out your a grown woman do whats right for you and yours...........
2006-12-06 02:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by huddlestony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋