2006-12-06 01:00:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Its always a difficult thing to tell someone. But dont tell him until you are sure. If you thik you might be and then it turns out that you are not, hten its putting stress on him for no reason. Wait til you get a positive test result and then sit him down and just tell him, its not easy but it will need to be done. Good Luck.
2006-12-06 01:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by Tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a man (who now has a child) who has been scared in the past by my significant other telling me this exact this the simple answer is you don't.
Instead, tell him you have been thinking about having a baby. In essence that is what you are thinking about right?? Just not in the sense of considering wanting one (unless of course you do).
Judging by his reaction, you be able to gauge how to proceed from there. If he freaks out and adamantly says he is nowhere near ready for one, wait until you have some definitive answer backed by some proof (i.e. pregnancy test). If, on the other hand, he seems excited and there is little negative emotion expressed, be frank with him that you very well may be.
I have broken up with women in the past just because they have told me they might be pregnant even though it was a false alarm. I used to beat myself up wondering if I had made the right decision.
If you love your boyfriend, be honest, but be considerate of the gravity of the impact this information could hold when you tell him and be tactful. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-12-06 01:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Bumbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell him you "might" be, you find out if you are or aren't first. Then you just tell him if you are. No need to cause possible unnecessary drama, unless you are that type of person. And start practicing safer sex so you won't have to worry about it again.
2006-12-06 01:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till you know that you are if you not really sure you should take a ept test then you should get a good answer if you are or not but if he and you had unprotected sex than you should take that into consideration that you might be but still do the test
2006-12-06 01:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always scrary to tell ur bf u r pregnant but he needs to know. i drove down to see my bf and told him in person. just make it casual. like for me we were cuddleing and i was scared to death and he could tell something was bohtering me and he asked serveral times but i just told him i was fine, then finally i took a deep breath and said we r going to haev a baby adn i started crying. then he just held me and we cried together. but u will feel a lot better if u tell hi m. so get it over wiht.
2006-12-06 05:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Bree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can say I'm late and if you find out you are you can show him the test either a home pregnancy test or a slip that says you are from a dr office.
2006-12-06 01:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by fluttergirl2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stress him out till you know for sure. Wait to tell him till you know.
2006-12-06 04:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time i told his bestfriend because i knew he couldn't keep a secret and he called me and asked me if it was true and i said yes. the second time i showed him the ultrasound picture.
2006-12-06 01:39:49 · answer #8 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him until you know for sure. that tends to scare boyfriends.
2006-12-06 01:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by eh77530 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you know for sure, at least that's what I did.
2006-12-06 01:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋