i am amother for twiens(boy&girl) she is 4 years old i notice that the boy is better than she in learing she alwayse scard from getting me angre and this makes me angre i want her to be smart and better but i do not know how, how can i make her feel safe she loves me so much and me too but when things related to learning and school it turn to be uwful i want to be better mom for her please help me with this simple question
2006-12-06 00:58:15 · 3 answers · asked by am20775 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't get angry with her. Not everyone is good at the same things. She may be smart, but just not "book smart".
Maybe what you should do is ask her twin to help her. Or, you can ask her if she's having troubles and ask what you can do to help. Don't punish her or even get frustrated or angry in front of her.
2006-12-06 01:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone learns at different speeds, especially so in boy and girls. Also, the presence of being scared, can slow the learning process. Don't get angry with her, she's still young and she is still going to learn at her speed. If she is actually having learning problems, when she goes to school (and even before), the state will have programs designed to help. Get angry, if she pours milk into the VCR, not because she can't learn something as fast as you would like. I hope this helps.
2006-12-06 10:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by steven k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
recognition all the time,,say bravo all the time,,tell her teacher to support her by engurgment..it is psychic issue not mental..she is ok...and take care avoid she might be jelous from the smart boy,,
2006-12-06 09:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by gamal_solimann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋