Should I wait for her - should I not?

Question

I really yearn to wait for this girl who previously replied my email saying that she just want to be friends. I really love her. We are both 14 and who knows when we reach maturity, she can realize her feeling.

For those of you who said I must forget her, you do not understand it.

You do not understand the sacrifice I have made to be with her.
You do not understand the courage I have collected in order to tell her my feeling.
You do not understand all those that I have gone thru..


Should I wait for her?
After all, doesn't true love wait?

Answer 1

when i was fifteen i was in love with the boy. he was my first real love. i did a lot of stupid things just to be with him. i ran away stayed out past curfew. skipped school a few times just to see him. He was the first person i gave myself too. we both were really in love. He was scent to a boys camp. You know for kids who don't behave. His father was a real jerk and did not care what he did and just wanted to make his new wife happy. we were both devastated. I waited a year for him to get out of this place. To a 15 year old a year is a long time. by the time he got out i had grown alot i was 16 and well looked like barbie. ( at least thats what my friends told me) I was a dancer and in modeling classes my life had really turned around. but i was still in love with him still wanted to be with him. However he would not even see me after he got out. He told me it would be better if we just saw other people. Something in that camp had changed him. Guess what my point is you can wait and be in love and people do change. she may change and want you. its worth the wait if you get what you want in the end if not then was it worth it just to see ? To me it was not worth waiting for someone that did not love me anymore. When we did run into each other about a year later at a party he was shocked at how great i looked and how much i had changed from that tom boy that he used to love. And i was shocked to see how much he had not changed in two years. the thing is some of us change for the better and some of us just don't good luck and follow your heart and don't let anyone tell you its just puppy love. what do they know.

Answer 2

ALWAYS REMEMBER THERE ARE MANY FISH IN THE SEA. TRUE LOVE CAN BE TRICKY!!!!! YOU MUST UNDERSTAND THOUGH THAT THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND LUST. MANY PEOPLE BECOME CONFUSED ABOUT THIS(MYSELF INCLUDED). IF THIS GIRL IS NOT WILLING TO GIVE YOU THE TIME OF DAY THEN YOU MUST PICK YOUR SELF UP AND MOVE ON(OF COURSE, THIS IS ALWAYS EASIER SAID THEN DONE). THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR EVERYONE. WOULD YOU REALLY WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T SHARE THE SAME FEELINGS AS YOU? BE PATIENT IN LIFE WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE, WHEN YOU ARE REALLY READY FOR IT, IT WILL HAPPEN. DON'T RUSH THINGS!!!!! JUST ENJOY LIFE IN EVERY WAY. GIRLS WILL COME AND GO!!!! JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART!

Answer 3

What you do not understand is that we have all felt those feelings!! You might wait a little while and see, but life is short and there are many other girls that would be compatible and you might fall in love with them.True love doesn't live without nourishment, don't waste too much time here.

Answer 4

Life is too short - don't waste your time, love, and energy on someone who doesn't feel the same way. I had to learn this hard lesson too when I was about your age.

Answer 5

Your 14. Maybe this is true love but maybe it isnt. Don't get caught up in love to early or you will be missing out on life.

Answer 6

you could wait for her but at fourteen lots of things in both your lives will change new friends and lots of different girls will come into your life and boys for her only time will tell it's meant to be good luck