I have a habit of telling my problems/tensions to anyone i find closer but situation is that i get to hear from someone that he/she thinks i am a psycho..some kind of mental..Maybe this is how i get relief from tension thats again my way of coming out of it ..possibly i look for some help..people literally get me wrong..I am unluckey to have a gf or i would have told her right..It hurts a lot .I know its foolish to think such things but again some inferiority complex sticks to some corner of my conscience..I am again telling it to you..Maybe looking for some solution..I dont know which catagory of yahoo it fits im putting in family and relation.
2006-12-06 00:53:54 · 11 answers · asked by nirupam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ummm......Anthony Perkins!!
2006-12-06 00:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not psycho but it's also not healthy to be telling all your problems to "anyone" .. we need to learn to have emotional boundaries and learn what is appropriate when. If you really need someone to talk to , why not find a good counselor? They will not only listen to you respectfully but will also give you good healthy feedback. Some NGOs provide free counseling, look around in your city.
It's not at all foolish to think about all this, in fact it shows that you are aware that your life is less than perfect, and that you are looking for solutions says that you are taking the first step to living a more fulfilled life. Good luck.
2006-12-07 12:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by askios007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people are put off by people talking to them about all their problems only and not asking about the other person.
If you have problems, yes talk them through but one by one and get each one sorted out one at a time. But when talking them through with someone, ask the person you are talking to if they wish to talk about any problems they have too.
I do not think you are a Pycho I believe you are just in need of a very good friend to help you through life's issues.
When meeting a new friend and that is what you need, dont start the friendship by immediately pouring out your problems, take things slowly and then ask if they will assit you with a problem you have. As for the others that have called you names, leave them well alone and start some new friendships
2006-12-06 09:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother with what people say? They can make you feel inferior , ONLY if you allow them to. You know yourself, and even I would say you are sane and level headed. Why be bothered by them? Go on doing the right thing. You know that you are a rational being and keep telling that yourself and what others say is inconsequential.
2006-12-07 06:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel for others then u will have some inferiority complex on urself. so try to avoid such members.be bold on u.don't belive others comments
2006-12-06 09:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by suresh m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you understand that others are calling you psycho then believe me that you are not a psycho . so may be with a little effort you can get rid of ur habit .
2006-12-06 09:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by pujja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r no wrong.........sharing Ur problems wid a gud friend is every person is supposed to do.........n if U hear frm someone dat U r a psyco ......U don't need to worry at all............just chill out dude
2006-12-06 09:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by David SRK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if really you share your problems with everyone, its mean that you are an honest person.. always respect yourself and never think that you are psycho..
2006-12-06 09:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by shazi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is so. Try a tape recorder.
2006-12-09 23:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by freemanhere1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
psycho. we all are. thats humane. isnt it?
2006-12-06 09:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by thirdeyeind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋