OK...so i just moved to ohio and the first person i met was priscilla...and we are best friends....everything about us is the same...same fav. color...same weight...same exact height...same fav. food...EVERYTHING! but..shes like totally smarter than me...she has a 4.0 grade point average...and school and grades are totally important to me...and i mean before this year i got all A's and B's but i got an F on my social studies test EVEN though i studied..and yesterday i got a D on my science test....and everytime i see her shes on top of everythng.....organized has money...has a BUTT and i dont....i mean...i love myself...(not in a stuck up way) but i dont know what to do!!!!!!!
2006-12-06 00:50:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and to top it off i just broke up with my bf...so i need one
2006-12-06 00:58:21 · update #1
ok, first things first. you dont need a boyfriend....you want one..
...well, its not your fault she's better @ everything....she's just an over achiever i reckon....well, study harder, get her to help you, what do you have to lose. shes your best friend she'll understand that she's better than you
2006-12-06 01:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by ..::Sierra::.. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just getting a taste of the real world. That's life. You are always gonna find someone that's better, faster, sexier, smarter, and prettier. You will come to realize that you in all that you have is unique. It doesn't matter what you wear to the race. It only matters how you finish. So just apply yourself and stop the madness. Do your thing, study harder, do some damn booty exercises, love yourself, and call me....naw j/k. lol Life is gonna have its peaks and valleys and it seems you are going though this at the moment. Just weather storm, don't panic, and show life and the world you not gonna run and hide. Face this like every other challenge that will come your way. Now is the time you build your character and ability to be strong and do the things you desire in your life even if appears you do not measure up.
Do not go calmly into that dark night.
2006-12-06 01:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should have more confident and love for yourself, focus in the things you do rather comparing the results of your work to your bestfriend.And similarity is not the factor of having a great friendship, especially in the physical side, its not mean that if both of you share many similarities in a physical aspect both of you could have the same talents and abilities..Remember both of you are still different individual.Its not right to think that you should have what she have because your bestfriends, and its not right to think that youre a lesser person than her because of your grades right now...You are a great person, just focus on your life and dont get distracted on her achievements, it will just make you cram and loose your self-confidence. If you have low grades now then strive for more and study well, not having the purpose of surpassing her but just thinking that this what a good student should do, studying well.Do it with an easy spirit, dont push yourself too hard, just enjoy your study and you will see the result.I believe you have great skills, attitudes and talents that no one in this world could have but only you, so just believe in yourself and shine!!You dont have to get insecure to your bestfriend or to any other person, just live your life in the best way that you can.Hope I helped you thats all.
2006-12-06 01:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to start focusing on yourself, and not on your best friend. Perhaps she could help you with your studies, assist you in getting your grades back up. Don't worry about a boyfriend, one will come along before you know it!
2006-12-06 01:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just moved, your prolly stressed in ways you dont know. hit the books a little harder and focus more. and im sure your a great person. shes completely assured of everything around her and your not. its going to take you time to get that way. dont stress, it doesnt help, you prolly got enough of that. be her friend and love yourself.
2006-12-06 00:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by .......... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work harder, there is nothing that she can do and u can't , work harder, work ur damn butt off, it's a good thing that u worry aout grades, and believe me you have a long way to go, and you will, don't let yourself slack at all,just work harder.
2006-12-06 00:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by virgodoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to help you with your studies. A real friend would want you to do as well as she does.
2006-12-06 00:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U R HER REAL BEST FRIEND THAN NEVER WILL U B JEALOUS OF HER !!!!
#TRY TO CHANGE UR SELF THE PROBLEM IS WITH U HONEY !!!
#WHEN U LOSE AND SEE HER WIN U FEEL SHE'S GOOD AND UR BAD !!!
"BUT REMEMBER IF U WORK HARD U CAN B BETTER"
2006-12-06 01:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by nomad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to focus on the things you do better than her...i'm not saying you shouldn't care about school but as long as she doesn't show off about that,you shouldn't feel bad about it..
maybe you're better at art...you'll find no better fullfillment than with your artistic skills....
there must be sthg you're better at than she is....
2006-12-06 01:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by Billie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to stop worry about what she has and worry about what you DO HAVE LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF its ok that the two of you are differnt maybe you could ask her to help you study
2006-12-06 00:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by allison b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋