I have been married for over 10 yrs. Our bedroom life is getting blah, how can I spice things up for him. He's been watching porn on the internet, I don't necessarily like it, I want to be his porn. Please Help!!
2006-12-06 00:33:45 · 14 answers · asked by Missy R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can do a few things...you can go to the adult video store and look at some of the toys they have and purchase some things that you both may enjoy using...Rent some movies and learn some new moves and try them...
You guys can also go out and be spontaneous and try making out somewhere you would never go to try to have fun//////
2006-12-06 01:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's a different approach...when everyone else is saying watch porn with him...i say no need...I have learned a few years ago that when God is first in not just your life, but first over everything in your life, including marriage, then all will work...I've been with my wife for going on 11 years now and our life together is better now than when we first started dating...we decided to put God first about four years ago now and all is well...in every aspect of our relationship. Put it in his capable hands...you will not be led wrong...and yes even that part of the marriage gets much much better...I can't explain how, I just know that God gets the credit for it...Good Luck!
2006-12-06 01:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by saintsfanchad 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sex Toys, Different Positions, and some roll playing.! &nd who said it had to be spiced up in just the bedroom.! Lol try doing it in new different places too.! Have fun :)
2016-05-22 23:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not like porn but if you want to spice things up you should watch porn with him and see what the women is doing and how she does it and then you do it for him.
2006-12-06 00:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dress up in sexy clothes like the porn stars!
After my husband was gone for 3 days, helping his realitives move to our state, I was in the living room waiting for him when he got home only wearing some sexy black lingerie and high heels and jewerly. Lets just say, it added a little spice.
2006-12-06 00:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do some of the things that you see on porn, get toys, invite others to join you. How far are you willing to go?
2006-12-06 02:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the porns with him. Learn a few things from them. I'm not kidding. Go to a Marriage Counsellor and he/she will tell you the same thing too.
Good luck!
2006-12-06 00:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by Geo C 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you want to watch with him...Then take over where they left off. It's not hard to do.
You have heard of the perfect woman right?
Lady in the kitchen...whore in the bedroom
This really does work...if you trust him.
Have fun and anything goes...
2006-12-06 00:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by Prissie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy the book: The ultimate guide to fellatio. Do not let him know you are studying but then try out youru new skills and see what he thinks. maybe he will do same for you.
2006-12-06 05:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-06 11:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋