ok I have known this guy for two years and he is really hot and reallly nice and I want to know if I schould tell him or not.
2006-12-06 00:30:41 · 23 answers · asked by Kealty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you want things to go to the next level, then let him know how you feel. But, this is a double edged sword. He is your best friend and if you enter a serious relationship with this person, things will never be as they were before.
If you want to have a friend for life, dont do it....otherwise take the chance for something more.....its all up to you.
2006-12-06 00:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by to be taken seriously 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him does he not have the right to know?
Let him know that he is your best friend,that over the time you have been friends you have started to feel other feelings towards him.That your not sure how he feels,but your willing to see where thing might lead you.That it is better to try at love then let that ship sail way without yous ever really knowing what could have been.
I was in this same situation when i was younger.I waited to late to let my true feelings known.She got pregnant and married the guy.Her only regret was not knowing before hand how I truly felt about her.I was her brothers friend and she did not want to cause any hard feels between our friendship nor her brothers.
Hope this helps you figure out what you should do.
2006-12-06 08:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going to be real with you I am in the same situation and I am going to tell you now its hard. If you like a person I know theres going to be 50-50 chance that you are going to tell him.but i am going to teel up front if you are ready for any type of consequences then go for it. because say that you 2 get together but it doesnt work are you and that person going to have that nice relationship that you guys had before. Its never going to be a fairy tale. Or a once apon a time.
2006-12-06 08:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by rican mami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should put into consideration that if you tell him and he doesn't feel the same way that your relationship with him might never be the same. Also think about why you feel this way about him, does he have certain qualities that you like? Why now? Or are you just so used to him being around? Do you get jealous if he has a girlfriend or a date? Ask yourself these questions before you decide to spill the beans!
2006-12-06 08:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he's your best friend, chances are you know if he like a direct approach or not. if you think telling him straight out might make him uncomfortable, try some gentle flirting. if you see that he's not comfortable after a while, decide if you'd rather keep his friendship or risk losing it by telling him straight how you feel. if he responds to the flirting, keep at it and see where it goes. i found that men (especially when you're really good friends) would rather not risk rejection which could make the friendship awkward, but if they're interested and they think you are too, they'll ask you out. good luck!
2006-12-06 08:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by adeleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it's possible that he does not feel the same, & you value the friendship, no. If you think he does feel the same then yes. I married my best friend from high school, but he was the one with the crush first. It's a difficult call because the wrong choice can damage the friendship. Best of luck to you!
2006-12-06 08:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could tell him if your ready for the consequences like feelings
getting involve and he decide he really don't like you as girlfriend thats goin to mess up the relationship yall once had. then insecurities come into play he jus wanna be friends your not goin like the fact of him seeing other girls then here comes the jealousy.
2006-12-06 08:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by brittanyknewman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if you feel like your not ready dont tell
but if you really think he would care and you think you truely need tell, go ahead and tell
dont put pressure on yourself
b/c you will be worried too much
but if you knew him that long and you say that go for it! YES
<3 kris
2006-12-06 09:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by k_m_rich_kris_model 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...well...yes...if you really feel something for someonr you'd ought to tell them...now im asuming you are like 13 or 14....by the ways you said hes oh so hot...because i would know because im 14...but anyways...YES! go for it....even though hes your best friend...just tell him how you feel...andhopefully he feels the same way
JACKYS MIND :\
2006-12-06 08:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to go on a real date not as friends. See where that goes & maybe you will get some answers that way. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-06 08:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋