Yes, everyone does.
2006-12-06 00:04:25
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answer #1
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answered by Willie T 2
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Unfortunately, yes! The world would be a much better place if people would focus on their own faults and not on those of others.
2006-12-06 08:05:41
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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I think it is easier to find fault with others than examine yourself and see the many faults one has. This seems to be human nature and it is one action I try to combat every day. In truth, I have all I can do to control myself and act honorably. I really don't have the expertise nor the time to run another life.
2006-12-06 08:07:32
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answer #3
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answered by david42 5
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Look what I found (in my appointment calendar):
"We habitually erect a barrier called blame that keeps us from comunicating genuinely with others, and we fortify it with our concepts of who's right and who's wrong. We do that with the people who are closest to us and we do it with political systems, with all kinds of things that we don't like about our assosciates or our society. It is a very common, ancient, well-perfected device for tryuing to feel better. Blame others. Blaming is a way to protect your heart, trying to protect what is soft and open and tender in yourself. Rather than own that pain, we scramble to find some comfortable ground."
I think we're more understanding and accustomed to our own faults (we live with them), it's so easy to feel the comparison next to others and be more sensitive to their faults. We forget that it's an opportunity to create friendship, to rise above weaknesses and challenges.
2006-12-06 09:02:16
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answer #4
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answered by Zeera 7
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In general, I think it is 10 times the opposite.
2006-12-06 08:05:08
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answered by Anonymous
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When people are afraid and insecure with themselves and do not know how to take responsibility for their own sh it, then yes. I do not know how widespread this is. It seems to be that a developmental stage in the person has been missed.
2006-12-06 08:22:16
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answer #6
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answered by st.uncumber 5
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I agree, especially for those under 60.
2006-12-06 08:04:46
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answered by Anonymous
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It is much easier to say that somebody is guilty than to admit that u have done something wrong.
2006-12-06 08:09:13
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answer #8
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answered by JUSTGIRL 2
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Definitely. That is why it is so difficult to look inward. What we have in front of us id easier to see.
2006-12-06 08:06:30
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answer #9
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answered by nv 3
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yes
2006-12-06 08:04:37
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answer #10
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answered by St♥rmy Skye 6
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