when im out alone they pay no attention to me!
2006-12-05 23:59:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i kind-of agree with Fiona - its not that your more good looking or worthy! (though you may be- she may make u shine ) when your out with your g/f. - but in my opinion its the fact that you have one that makes you more appealing- your an obviously safe flirt cos they know you wouldn't want any thing more than a giggle.
If you acted on it I'm sure the girls your on about would run.. They just want a laugh at the end of the night, and a bit of gossip for the next day at work. Now the slags on the other hand.... forget them!!
2006-12-06 10:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by nitenurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are most probably jealous of the friendship, happiness, love and affection you and your girlfriend are enjoying.
They will flirt with you in the hope that you return their attention, and that your girlfriend will notice and will get upset with you. Driving a wedge between you will take away the cause of their jealousy (and, in a small way, make them feel they've "won" you from you're girlfriend).
An alternative, more simplistic, explanation is that a woman will be drawn to a man who shows himself to be caring and loving: if you are out alone, for all the other woman knows you might be smelly/loopy/unpleasant/weird. If however you're out with your girlfriend, the other woman knows you're worth having because you're clearly good enough for your girlfriend so probably good enough for her.
2006-12-06 08:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by jamesducker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had this discussion with one of my exes (we were dating at the time). Whenever we would go out anywhere together in public other women would check him out. (He was a very attractive guy.) But he too said that women checked him out much more often when he was with me than when he was alone or with other guys. He thought that it was because - when a man is with a woman, it is a message to the other women that she has approved of him meaning there is a better chance that he is a good guy and would be a good father for her children, and is in fact a better choice. When he is alone, he is still attractive, but you don't have that same feeling of safeness that you get when another woman has approved of the man. Anyway, I like his explanation.. it sounds good to me!
2006-12-06 11:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by River 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeh thats strange, perhaps you feel more confident and happy when your girlfriend is there and girls pick up on this, there are plenty of bunny boilers who love the challenge of flirting with someone elses guy.
2006-12-06 08:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by herbal ashtray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly trying to strangle you in an attempt to save your girlfriend from a life with you?
2006-12-06 08:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by mark g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm girls do the same to my boyfriend when im with him hes told me.I think girls like guys girlfriends being slightly jelous and girls like to think they have one over on the girlfriend? also if the guy payed attension to the girl giving him attension even when the guys with his gf it would make her feel good about herself? thats what iv always thought anyway.
2006-12-07 15:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by Rissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they want to make your girlfriend feel jealous or something...I typed and retyped an answer to your question...but this is the only thing that makes any sense!...sorry
2006-12-06 08:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sapphire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get to your girlfriend
2006-12-07 16:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur in a relationship it shouldnt matter xx
2006-12-06 10:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your girlfriend they want, not you.
2006-12-06 08:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by Goofy Goofer Goof Goof Goof ! 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋