i need advice pls from ladies only. im a cancer guy and my female friend is a taurus.?

Question

i got to know this girl who's a taurus from my school. i never knwe her and just entered her life just like then. so ibegan talking to her more and got to know her even more.

i was attracted to her for some reasons. not becos she's a taurus becos i didnt know she is one in the first place.

so we got closer and went out for dates. i know she likes me. it's easy to tell. i just know it if girls like me or are interested to know me. it's very obvious. dont ask how do i know. i can tell after some time.

im not her bf. but we're close and want to wait to get to know each other even MORE before getting into a serious r/s. becos im not into a short term thrill with a girl.

so i just got more open to her abt myself and ever did tell her that i miss her. and gave her hints that i like her. our date went out really well.

but i just dont know why im the one giving more into our friendship and ties than she does. i just dont feel appreciated much. damn. like what the heck is wrong

it seems like she want our ties to go slow. but is there anything wrong or like does she care?

i know im a cancer but im not a 100 percent true cancer. i used to be obsessed abt my ex yrs ago. but im not with her now becos i changed my personality for the benefit of myself and others. im only approximately 60 percent cancer trait.

pls no bullshit.

if u want to critisize so be it but if it does not construct my problem, then dont be an ***.

thanks.

Answer 1

Okay I am a lady myself.
HOW TO DATE TAURUS
Curious about that bullish Taurus you know? Here are some tips about these amiable creatures.
Instructions
STEP 1: Be honest and clear. Taureans are direct and down to earth and appreciate the same in return. STEP 2: Provide the Taurean with good food and drink. They enjoy comfort. STEP 3: Give the Taurean a taste of luxury - they love the finer (and more expensive) things in life. STEP 4: Offer hugs, massages and other physical delights. These beings are sensualists. STEP 5: Take your date to an elegant affair. Taureans enjoy a bit of display. STEP 6: Surprise your Taurean. They are usually sentimental souls - they love receiving flowers, cards and gifts. STEP 7: Let the Taurean take care of you. Tips & Warnings
Your date is a Taurus if he or she was born between April 20 and May 20.
Remember, we're all unique individuals, and there is a lot more to a person's astrological makeup than a sun sign.
Getting to know another person takes time. Pay attention, and if you're unsure what your date wants, ask. Consideration, reliability and kindness count for a lot.
Overall Things You'll Need
Massage Oils
Wines
Flowers
Massagers
Gourmet Foods
Opera tickets
Greeting Cards
Dinner Reservations
Diamonds
Museum Tickets
Theater tickets
Topics Addressed
How to date a Taurus
Am I compatible with a Taurus
Insight to Taurus sign
Relationships with a Taurus
CANCER AND TAURUS
When Taurus and Cancer come together in a love affair, it's usually a very good combination. They are two positions apart within the Zodiac, and such Signs tend to share karmic ties and a deep mutual understanding. These particular two Signs have much in common: Both prize security in a love relationship above almost all else; both tend to be nurturers (Cancer is emotionally nurturing while Taurus loves to spoil their lover with sensual delights, gifts and good, rich meals). They're both quite domestic and love a quiet night spent at home with their sweetie.

The Taurus-Cancer partnership tends to be a happy one due to this mutual enjoyment of the security and comfort of home. They love a solid home base, a strong relationship, nice possessions, good food: all the comforts of domestic life. Theirs is often the ideal family that people of other Signs strive for, with strong ties between them and a relationship that is family-oriented rather than toward the outside world. Their only major problems arise when Taurus insists on having its own way and Cancer responds by sulking. Taurus must understand Cancer's emotional sensitivity, and Cancer needs rely on open, honest communication than on emotional blackmail.

Taurus is ruled by Venus (Love) and Cancer is ruled by the Moon (Emotions). Both of these celestial bodies vibrate with feminine energy. Cancer often keeps emotions bottled up and simmering inside, which can lead to occasional boil-overs. Thus, Cancer is attracted to Taurus's open, honest, unafraid nature. As the Moon controls the tides of the Earth, quietly affecting all life, so does Cancer, manipulating behind the scenes. Cancer tends to be sentimental, and both partners prefer to enjoy each other rather than socializing with large groups.

Taurus is an Earth Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign. Water and Earth are compatible as tangible, physical entities. As a Water Sign, Cancer is born to nurture an Earth Sign like Taurus the way rain nurtures Earth and helps crops grow. In turn, Taurus tends to have a more stable view of life than does Cancer and is less prone to emotional turmoil; therefore, Taurus can help Cancer stabilize their tumultuous feelings. Both Signs must be careful in this relationship, however: Taurus may tire of Cancer's mood swings, and Cancer may in turn feel that Taurus is insensitive to their needs.

Taurus is a Fixed Sign and Cancer is a Cardinal Sign. Taurus has Fixed habits; they won't change an opinion once it's formed. This can provide Cancer with an emotional rock, as Taurus is entirely dedicated to the relationship. In turn, Cancer can bring new inspiration to the relationship and start new projects that Taurus will enjoy taking over later.

What's the best aspect of the Taurus-Cancer relationships? The steady, reliable team they make. Both Signs are dependable and nurturing, strongly oriented toward domestic life together. A mutual love of home and security makes theirs an ideal long-term, family relationship.

Best Wishes and Good Luck for your relationship :-)

Answer 2

The Cancerian male secretly desires to be babied by his woman. A Taurus female loves to spoil her man. Add these two astrological facts together and what's the result? Love at first sight? No, not quite.

A Crab doesn't rush into anything, including romance. Not only is rushing against the Cancerian grain, but it's impossible for a crab to advance directly, in a straight line. All crabs have this funny side-waddle. Did you ever watch one? First, he veers to the right, after which he turns to the left. Finally, he appears to be retreating backward--until the object he wants tries to escape, then he lunges forward, grabs hold, and hangs on--until he loses a claw. Even if he does, he'll just grow a new one, which is why Cancerians are called "tenacious," and that's often too mild a word for them.

Neither is a Taurus girl the type to leap overboard into a sea of passion, trilling ecstatic songs of eternal love. This woman wants to be wooed, and I mean really wooed. She'll expect a mountain of proof from a lover before she commits herself. So you can see that "love-at-first-sight" is not quite what happens when an Earth Sign like Taurus meets a Water Sign like Cancer. It takes time, usually months or years, seldom days or weeks. However, once committed, the Taurus woman knows how to keep her man sweetly contented. And the Cancerian man, once he's decided to make his forward lunge, is a lover to end all lovers, particularily in persistency.

Answer 3

well you said just what I was thinking about Cancer's.
that you obsessed about your ex and Cancers are famous for that. you tend to be a little possessive of your loved ones and you truly can't help it. the moon rules you and makes you the (pardon my expression) motherly type. you are also very moody even though you don't realize it. your taurus girl is loving sweet and cuddly but she is Stubborn with a capital S. you can't push her into anything plus she is slow at coming to a decision but once she does she has made her mind up and you can't change it.
so with that said give her enough time to come around. don't smother her Taurus hates that. wear a nice snuggly sweater for her (she likes soft snuggly things) and treat her with a lot of patience and kindness. just remember the more you push her the more obstinate she will become so loosen up.

Answer 4

I'm a taurean and went out with a cancerian .. good match just don't be too sensitive

Answer 5

Sounds like a match made in heaven! Have fun!