2006-12-05 22:55:05 · 5 answers · asked by Eddie 52101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be yourself, talk to her, have a conversation, be polite. There is really nothing else you can do, the two of you created a life, you have life long ties to one another. However, being that you are not together chances are you will have to get use to the idea. I hope you are taking care of the child involved. You should remain a constant in the child's life. Good luck to you and God bless****
2006-12-05 22:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel it or do you know it? First of all before you jump to any conclusions, you really need to sit down with her and get to the bottom of it. Maybe there is a legitimate explanation. Maybe she isnt going out with anyone else. Do you love her? Maybe you need to decide that first up. If you love her, does she know you do? You may have had a baby together but that doesnt mean you love her.....Does she love you? They are all relevant questions you should be asking. If neither of you love each other, then there is no point of worrying if she is seeing someone else or not. If you do love her, and she loves you, maybe she wants a commitment from you. Maybe she is getting more attention from the other guy than she is from you. All I can do is guess. You are the only one who can get to the bottom of this. Talk to her, if you love her, maybe ask her to marry you...you will know how she feels by the way she responds. You firstly have to decide what it is that you really want. A child will never keep a relationship healthy. You can be a good father to a child and not necessarily have to be married to the mother. Talk to her, find out what is going on, its the only way you can be sure. You could be worrying over nothing, or you could be right, whatever way it goes, work out what your true feelings for her are, then talk and find out her feelings for you...then you can work on a solution.
Hope it turns out the way you want it to.
2006-12-06 07:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you aren't married . If he isn't giving you money, then go to the courts and get child support
2006-12-06 07:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by txcatwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and if he is not interested to continue relationship with you then leave him.
2006-12-06 07:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jayanthi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask separation
2006-12-06 06:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by sk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋