we are trying for a baby and i asked a friend on how far he should come inside me. she said at the back but near the cervix and she has really confused me. what i cervix and is it at the back cause i normally prop a pillow under my bottom after he does come in me to try and help. is this wrong. please help
2006-12-05 22:09:48 · 11 answers · asked by tk 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
your trying for a baby and you dont know what or where the cervix is? phew your in for an eye-opening experience when you concieve! propping a pillow under u is probably a good idea - let gravity do its thang!
2006-12-05 22:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by вℓαмє_¢αиα∂α 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy oh boy...I'm with Jo up there on this one!! You're trying to get pregnant and don't even know what your cervix is?! Goodness gracious me....How old are you, honey? I hate to sound rude, but you just don't sound ready for this!
BTW, it doesn't matter in theory where he comes, as long as it is inside your vagina (you DO know what THAT is, don't you? lol) because they will swim in through the cervix anyways as long as you stay lying down...however, the closer to the cervix, the better.
I really do think you should reconsider trying for a baby, though, until you have learned about your own body! What is going to happen when you go into labor and, more yet, when you take the baby home?
Phew, what is the world coming to?
2006-12-05 23:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by BraidyLocks 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the way in...lol.. Use the pillow, keep trying and get checked by a doc. Good luck, my youngest is 10 on the 14th, it's so beautiful and sad all at once. But somehow keeps an answer into what is life all about.. I have a brother who is having such a hard time conceiving with his wife Kathy, A prayer would help.. For Robert and Kathy Of West Va.
2006-12-05 22:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-04 22:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's this simple. Gravity sucks, so, don't stand up once your done. Make sure your on your back and when he's "spent", roll back onto your shoulders and put your feet on the wall above your head. Stay like that for as long as possible to give the little swimmers the best chance of making it "home". This really does work. If he has lazy sperm, this makes life alot easier on them. You may need to stay in the position for 10-15 minutes, so practise being in the position first so that you get it right the first time.
2006-12-06 00:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by mickirmik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your cervix is the opening of your uterus. it is at the back of yur vagina. when your partner comes, he will shoot it at the back anyway so a pillow will not necesarely work . sperm swim remember and it will into you to.
just keep on having sex normally and stop stressing about it. when you try to hard for a baby it will take longer. it is like looking for something and not finding it and then when you stop looking you get it oneday. that is how it is to concieve.
good luck.
2006-12-05 22:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use the pillow propped under your butt while you are having sex and ...without sounding yucky or perverted....after he is done...stay there...don't get up and head to the bathroom. (My doctor told me this!) Its not just all about how far he should come inside...there are other factors you will have to consider too but I am sure you are aware of those...Good Luck!
2006-12-05 22:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by babyblues_752001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not depends on how far he goes insise you ...the basic requirement is only two and a half inches,which every one fulfills...you just make sure that there is sufficient time gap between two intercourse so that sperm is regenerated and you too are in correct time to cocieve....wish u luck..!!!
2006-12-05 23:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by roony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neeed not to be worried for this aspect just ones to be inside is more than enough provided you are on that days where fertility is possible and egg is absobded
sorry wont be able to go more in it but make sure u r relaxed and not tensed
2006-12-05 22:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a very good educational video clip. Em.. this position has provened by US O&G doctor that the conceiving rate will be very high.
I will email you the link.
2006-12-07 23:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋