Yes he treats me badly (mentally) and if I had a dollar for everytime he told me I would never find any better I would be rich. He is always telling me that I will never have what we have with anyone else. He says we are soul mates - but he barely has time for me and is full of excuses and would take the last dollar I have. He even asked me to make his truck payment? I didn't of course he may be playing me for a fool and I am but I am not crazy!
2006-12-05 21:53:41 · 12 answers · asked by Redhead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Doesn't it seem to be an easy answer? Don't you feel something is wrong? Can't see the remedy? The only foolish thing is staying one more minute. You are not a fool---you are a person who deserves better than that----go find it. He is the fool---in a few years he'll be in a crappy trailer park, with some big fatty who will give him anything because she has such low self esteem. Don't be that girl. Pull yourself up and go
2006-12-05 22:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just read your last question and personally I think if you are with someone who doesn't love and respect you back, you may as well be on your own !! Especially if he treats you so badly. He is obviously very insecure in your relationship, that is why he tells you that you will never find anyone else like him. In all honesty why would you want to anyway !! He has no time for you, he obviously lies to you and would take your last dollar !! What a man hey !! If l was you l would tell him to take his truck and shove it where the sun don't shine !! You are certainly not a fool as you can see through him. So please don't be crazy and don't take his crap any longer. He sounds like a very immature, manipulative person and believe me you don't need him. Get on with your life, leave him behind. There are plenty of nice guys out there who know how to treat a woman with love and respect. He is a loser !! Go find yourself a nice guy and be happy !!
2006-12-06 06:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and if I had a $ for every time a female like you asked a question like this I'd be a million aire.
You are probably the girlfriend----I doubt very seriously you are this jerks wife! Your BF is selfish, self centered and self absorbed. HIS wants and needs will always come before any one else---and his relationships have always failed because of the way he is.
If I were you----I'd get my own place and leave this mooching loser at the curb where he belongs----
If you would look at his parents and their interactions with one another you will find your BF learned all his negative traits from the FAMILY TREE----I would almost guess his DAD treats his MOM just like what he's doing to you.
RUN FOREST RUN---get yourself out of the mess you in because if you don't he will be playing you for the fool and you will be crazy if you don't do something about your situation!
2006-12-06 06:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a real loser to me. Even if you only have one eye and it is in the middle of your forehead, you can do better. No one that really loves someone else would play those mind games with the one they love. Get out. Save your money and move. Or go to family. File for dovorce if you are married. Sounds like he is using you to enable his lifestyle, which apparently takes place beyond your awareness. He may be having an affair. Make that probably. Good luck.
2006-12-06 07:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like I was married to this guy's relative about 12 years ago. He said the same thing and you know what I found my true soul mate. You need to decide for yourself when you have had enough. Good luck
2006-12-06 06:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a method of control. By telling you that you can't do any better he pushed you farther under his thumb. But the reason he does this is because he believes he is truly inadequate. Which is most likely is. This doesn't happen in cases of actual love.
Dump him, you will find something better just be patient.
2006-12-06 05:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will do everything to keep you like putting like you down and say things like "you never find anyone better then me" but you can because they are good guys out there waiting for you.
i know because im in the same situation right now it don't get any better only worse so do whats best for you.
2006-12-06 06:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Rockstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't understand women. Don't ever let a man treat you like crap! A man should have respect for a woman whether she is decent or not.
Sorry, I was brought up that way.
2006-12-06 06:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kingstontown by UB40. Good luck
2006-12-06 05:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i looked up your last question. you wanted to know how to lose him or forget him. he is controling. you don't need that. if you are married to him, see a lawyer. if not, tell him where the door is and tell him to use it.
2006-12-06 05:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋