I broke up with i guy i really fell in love with out of anger, he got very jealous and insecure of me so i couldn take it any more.we never really saw each other again after that and when we did i ignored him , that was 4 years ago and i still think of him and miss him sometimes... i need some advise on what to do ???
2006-12-05 21:45:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you obviously made the right decision in finishing things with him. when lonely we often think of 'what could have been' with ex partners but that doesn't mean that we should do anything about it.
move on with your life and fill it with interesting and supportive people, you will stop thinking about him one day.
2006-12-05 21:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Empress 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is always hard but if you are thinking about this guy this much, imagine how things will be if you meet someone and then marry that person and then start thinking about the same guy again. The best advice I could give you is get in touch with him even if it is just as a friend. You will never be able to get beyond this if you don't at least have a conversation with him just to clear the waters. Life is too short to pass up on an opportunity to find real love or just a really good friend. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-05 22:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect that you have created a fantasy about what this guy is like and what a relationship would be like with him. If only to get rid of this you should make casual contact. I think you will find the same jealous guy that you had before so be prepared to run like the wind; above all do not feed his jealousy by arguing with him. His emotions are his proble- do not let them become yours. I hope you find genuine happiness soon; whether with this guy or another.
2006-12-06 01:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOAH! i'm like on the other side of your situation... my friend got angry at me because i got really insecure when she couldn't make time for me anymore because of her work. although, this was just about a few weeks ago, but we haven't spoken since then and never saw each other again.
in your case, since you two haven't seen or talked to each other for 4 years, i think you should start some casual talk if you feel comfortable enough (you should... 4 years, that's long). just start talking to him. call him and ask if you two can catch up (have some friends come if you want).
2006-12-05 21:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by guilty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do NOTHING... just because you think of someone does not mean you should go reverse in life. If you really loved him and he felt the same there is no way on this earth the two of you would not be together right now. He's moved on going forward in life and so should you
2006-12-05 21:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u already know that he is not suitable for you. and u left him 4 yrs ago. so do not try to correct it. god gave an ability to us. it is forgetting. u dont think abt him and dont try to forget him. if u try to forget him u cant forget him. so u concentrate on ur works and other activities such as spending time with ur family & friends, reading books, listing songs, watchin t.v or movies etc. time will heal some wounds. for this problum also time is the medicine. everything will be alright. pray god. take care of ur self.
2006-12-05 21:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by karan v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go back where angels fear to tread my sweet, we have all had a rush of feelings for an ex when we think of the what if's but truely it was along time ago and if it was meant to be it would of got it together well before now,get your clubbing head on and show the men of your town that you have arrived .xxx :)
2006-12-06 00:24:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey four years thats very long enough for you to forgot him! you do really love him ah?so try to make up with him again! but be sure his still interested in you,just be cautious you know,4 years a lot things change happen! and who knows he change too! so if you really love him then give another try! you know I really believed in love! but in my case,I have to put it behind ,such choice that I know I will regret for the rest of my life! and I believed that you do love him!because if its not! for other people one week is enough to find another one! goodluck!
2006-12-05 22:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Naneth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decisions are always related to time. may be your decision at that time was correct, so can be your decision toady.
Take a deep breath & listen to your heart.
My heart says go for it.
Best luck.
2006-12-05 21:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by Chosen One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to miss someone , and to love someone -are they not 2 different
things?
2006-12-05 21:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by michael 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋