need help with my exwife?

Question

We have been divorced for 8 years now she wants to come back to me because I have a great job she has custudy of our 3 kids what should I do??

Answer 1

You never mention the word love in there. It would be a big mistake on both your parts. It sounds like she just wants to share in your wealth. I understand that you would like to be around your children but, you are divorced for a reason. Children are not the right reason to be married. The kids will be happier in the long run, I promise. Mine were and still are! I think you should be very careful and honest with your feelings in this situation. It sounds like a real bad idea. Do you really want to be divorced from her twice? How would that make your children feel?

Answer 2

What does your heart say? What does your brain say? Come on--you know her best of all,,,,can you have a future? The past is gone---maybe you both grew up a little and settled down----maybe the kids would be a saving grace----try to avoid the mixed messages---talk it out---seriously. Talk it out a lot. GET A LAWYER and ask about the ramifications. DO not rush into anything---how about you? No new girl to conflict with all this? Man you have a lot to think about. Is it just the money for her? Truthfully, you got questions to answer---and only you can handle all this---and NO might be the answer---the best choice is not always popular.

Answer 3

well are you sure it's due to your new job? And are you sure you don't want to live with your children again so they don't grow up in a broken home?
If you are sure you don't want to live with her and have custody of your children again just tell her so.
But you could also get with her, marry her again, and now that you have a good job...if you divorced her again, you'd stand a better chance of getting custody this time. And you could make her sign a pre-nuptial agreement that states what will happen with the kids if you divorce again, and who gets and doesn't get any of the money you make from this great job.

Answer 4

you and her have both managed for the past 8 years with out each other, so why go backwards when you should be going forward.for gods sake if your going to be that easy, and simple minded and take her back when you know all she wants you for is your money, im single! come on don't do it. if you did not have this new job she would not want you.

Answer 5

you need to RUN FOREST RUN-----Why would you even consider doing something like that? Would you be doing it for you or for YOUR children?

If you do allow this X-wife into your life again you'll need to set ground rules and please whatever you do DON't REMARRY this X!!! Don't co-mingle $$$$ don't put her name on things!!! You really need to be leary as to WHY she wants you after being divorced 8 years!

You can tell her NO----and just keep things as they are----REMEMBER the drama of your divorce 8 years ago---do you want a repeat?

Like I said---RUN FOREST RUN!

Answer 6

depends... you want to remain free for another 8 years or be a fool for the next 8 years

Answer 7

If she left for good, reason take her back. If not try to get the kids, if you are better able to support and take care .

Answer 8

now what a minute just think about this why would she trying to get back with you for your money when all she has to do is go to court a get child support from you maybe she really wants to get back with you just for you

Answer 9

what caused the breakup, and do u still love her? if u want your kids, and still love her than try it out first, on a trial basis to see if it will work. what do u have to loose. people change, maybe she has, and u certinly have too.

Answer 10

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