i m14.i live in Iikaner, India.last year i befriended this girl .soon we became good friends. then i got to know she is suffering from cancer.from the start of this school year she started arguing with me.i considered her my best friend, but she chose someone else as her best friend.i felt terrible but i didnt showed tat i was sad.one day we argued in school.after coming home i phoned her and she hung up .i phoned her once again and we fought on the phone.next day in school she acted normal but i couldn't bring myself to believe her.i feel like a toy with which she plays whenever she likes .what do i do. i dont wanna lose her??????????
HELP ME PLEASE
2006-12-05 19:44:08 · 5 answers · asked by Surabhi S 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well it seems like she might be going through alot and you probably should understand that. at 14 thats a hard thing to go through for any one so understand shes not going to be as stable as most people for no reson. and girls will be girls theyll fight with you over nothing and be your freind the next minut and being a guy i dont htink ill ever undersand why, but the best thing i think you should do for now is tell her youll be there if she wants to be freinds some peaopl just dont lik feling persured or pitied. good luck
2006-12-05 19:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has been a concern by way of the a long time! The concern is that females by way of nature are protecting and frequently controlling (sure, I mentioned it however I'm no longer proud). I treated this concern by way of my young adults and early 20's. I ultimately obtained uninterested! I began inviting everybody to hang around with everybody with me. People who I under no circumstances imagined could have get on well, did so splendidly. Teacher peers of mine get on well with homemaker unmarried mother's of four children, and so forth. Ironically, everybody has equivalent challenge and matters even while you did not believe that could ever be the case. Laughing, speakme and freinds making peers. It will shock you. Guess that is in which the expression, the extra the merrier got here from.
2016-09-03 11:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls your age have this kind of problem no matter where you live. People like this girl really do not appreciate good friends. Think that in your mind, move on without her. She is not worth your trouble. Find a new friend. There are probably girls you haven't hung around who would be willing to hang out with you. Don't be a toy for anyone!!!
2006-12-05 19:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by desertflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just treat her normally as nothing had happen as she is doing that towards you..
or just find other friends..you cant force someone to be your bestfriend rite?
2006-12-05 19:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by fulaien 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has cancer, she's NOT going to act normal. Forgive her, keep calling her, and be there for her.
2006-12-05 19:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋