How is it possible to make love to someone without feeling any love for that person and furthermore...........

Question

... is it really a factual truth and a proven fact that it is easier for the male species than for the female species to conduct themselves in such a heartless and loveless manner, i.e. men can easily and effortlessly have sexual intercourse with as many women as they want without feeling the least bit amorous and without contemplating any feelings of love, devotion and/or commitment in any way, shape or form?!? Therefore, shouldn`t we, as civilized human beings, as opposed to primitive animals, eradicate, obliterate and make obsolete this kind of ghastly behavior with some form of (corporal) punishment, perhaps?I want to hear all suggestions here so feel free to open your heart and mind on this particular topic (and you wallet too if you must but let me warn you beforehand that I do charge at least $500 for the whole night)!All joking aside, I really want you all to share with me your true feelings and most intimate thoughts on the subject so please do not feel intimidated or fearful!

Answer 1

If one of the participants is having sex for completely emotionless reasons it is NOT LOVE-making... it is SEX alone. A lot of people do this, but sex with somebody you care about is usually vastly superior because of the emotional part of it. I can have sex by myself... I can't "make LOVE" without a partner.

Answer 2

Yes, men are more vulnerable than women to have sex to only please the animal senses.

From evolutions' perspective it's clear that it focused on men being more sexual oriented to guarantee the continuation of the species. At the same time women's focus was to be family/loyalty oriented in a way to be more choosy about whom to choose as a husband, so as to guarantee he will not leave them with their children without bringing food and security.

But I am sorry to dissapoint you to this fact, and I also have good news. There *are* men who have got control over their desires, and know exactly what they want and what kind of women they will fall in love with.

You don't have to worry about it, and all you should do is act your role as a woman and be choosy.

And.. is that $500 offer still going?

Answer 3

It's not just men, there are plenty of women who have sex simply for the enjoyment of sex. This is societal conditioning, men are tought not to show their emotions so the end up compartementalizing their feelings so that love and sex and many other emotions become seperated individually rather the being felt all at the same time.
Have you ever seen a guy get angry? The blow up and then just as fast as it started it's over and they are on to the next emotion. This is also because a man's brain is not as good at muti-tasking as a woman's.

Answer 4

As a guy, I attest that it is more possible for males to copulate and not make love, ie. have sex for pleasure alone and not contemplate love with the partner. I guess it is the hormone testosterone. But I do not think we should always blame our chemistry. We should start to act, and think, because we can. That is why I believe in what you think. People, especially males, who are about the only people having sex without loving, should stop this primitive form of coitus. Having sex sould and must be done with love, for the only reason that we are close to the only animal that can (although other animals seem to make love as well).

Answer 5

A man does not have to have any feeling of love or commitment. On the other hand, a woman has emotional feelings that go along with sex. A woman needs to be held and loved.
I do not agree with the corporal punishment idea. After all, men and women do as they please and really are animal like in wanting and needing sex.
I wonder how prostitutes have sex and not feel anything physically or emotionally.

Answer 6

i don't think it's possible to make love to someone you don't love. it is however possible to **** someone you don't love. that is probably what you're debating here. and nothing about woman or man is fact but what science tells us. even that is up for debate. but most of what you're considering is the historical acceptance of the belief that men need sex while women don't. the denial of the female of er rights as human includes the fact that she is denied even the simple feeling or urge to WANT sex furthermore engage in it with partners whom she doesn't love or isn't married to or isn't looking to further the human race by becoming a veritable oven. Though it is more widely accepted for men to "sew their oats" because they have oats to sew to keep the human race alive, women on the other hand have no such oats. they are the ground upon which the oats are sewn. and this has been the reigning belief of most societies. but a woman can engage in sexual relations without love or dependence on another should she willingly chose to. as is with the male. it isn't difficult to produce arousal in yourself if you know what it takes to do so and this is probably why we can **** without feeling. because the feeling that we crave isn't emotionally it is purely carnal and animalistic, one of the basic forms of craving in the human body

Answer 7

The mere fact that there is such a huge sex industry (prostitution) that involves mostly women performing sexual acts on men strongly suggests that women are quite capable of having sex without emotional involvement with the other person involved in the act.

Answer 8

Yes it is true men can have sex for purely physical reasons without feeling any emotional attachment. It has to do with the brain chemicals and hormone differences between males and females. For most women it is impossible to have sex without feeling emotions and/or attachment to that man. Yes it is crazy!!!! Use caution and protection : )

Answer 9

This is due to the fact that there are more females than males..

Answer 10

ur question cannot be answered here.