I cant get a home test cause I dont want my parents to know.
2006-12-05 18:34:30 · 9 answers · asked by confussed 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you had unprotected sex, if the condom broke, if semen was near your vagina then....
1. Missed period
2. You can go to a clinic (like planned parenthood) and get a free test there
3. You may start to have early symptoms: headaches, sore breasts, sick tummy or morning sickness, etc...
4. You probably shouldn't be having sex if your not old enough to tell your parents
2006-12-05 18:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~A~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is get some kind of test done straight away if you suspect you are pregnant.
The symptoms experienced vary from person to person, and the only way to know for sure is getting a test done by your doctor, or trying a home pregnancy test - though these aren't as reliable as a blood test etc which a doctor can perform.
Some things you may experience can include:
- breast tenderness
- nausea
- frequent urination
- spotting (very light and only for maybe a day or two)
- tiredness
- missed period (this is a big one!)
I would recommend getting a test done ASAP so that you know where you stand, and can start figuring out what steps to take next.
If it turns out you are not pregnant, I would say just as well seeing as you are afraid of your parents finding out. Make sure in future if you are going to have sex then to do it safely, so things like this don't occur again. Also maybe it is a good idea to discuss with your doctor the most effective forms of contraception. You may need your parents permission for this, if that is the case I recommend having a discussion with them about contraception if you intend to keep having sex.
If you are pregnant, the free clinics can offer you support and advice, however for something like a termination you may need a parent/guardians permission (this is the way in australia anyway).
Either way you have a few issues to sort out, best of luck.
2006-12-05 18:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by yummy_mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really know for sure without a test.
The best thing to do would be to talk to your parents. Then -- and I'm not trying to mean here, just practical -- stop having sex if you're not ready to deal with the potential consequences.
Or, if you've got your own wheels and don't live in a tiny town, you could do what I did during my high-school scares. (No. I am not recommending this. Nor am I proud.) ... Contrive an excuse to leave the house for an hour or so, buy the test somewhere you never shop, take it to a convenience store bathroom, and lock yourself in there until you get a result.
I wish you the best, kiddo.
2006-12-05 18:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by some chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a test. Figure out a way. Have a friend buy it. Go to a clinic. But do it soon. Depending on your state if you wait to long your options might be limited. Tell your parents they might surprise you. And sweetie if by some chance you dodged the bullet tell your boyfriend to buy condoms and you need to go on the pill because you deserve better then to end up pregnant or dead. Also you should get tested, and so should he before you have sex again.
2006-12-05 18:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by flfox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-First of all you won't have your period, even if you feel its symptoms.
-You can go to a clinic where you can easily have the test without the need for ur parents to know.
-You might feel some commonly shared symptoms like soar breasts, tummy pain (similar to minstural pain), morning sickness, nausia, and sometimes backpain and lower blood pressure...
Now my advice to you is that you should find out as easly as possible, if you wanna keep the baby you have to take good care of it, and if you don't want to then it's much easier to get rid of it at the begining...
2006-12-05 18:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Noor O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stop menstruating and have a baby 9 months later.
If you are not old enough to where you can confide in your parents, you are not mature enough to be having sex.
Go to a local clinic and have them test you if you and your boyfriend cannot come up with the money for a test.
Good luck!
2006-12-05 18:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to a pregnancy clinic. They are free and most of the time you can take the test anonymously.
2006-12-05 18:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a free clinic or planned parenthood they can help you with out anyone knowing, DON'T put it off or wait if there is any doubt that you could be pregnant, because if you decide to have an abortion you have limited time, if you are deciding to go thru with the pregnancy you need to see a Dr for regular checkups.
2006-12-05 19:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by JoAnne H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hiding it from your parents wont help, they will find out sooner or later. Its rather hard to hide a baby.
2006-12-05 18:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by binglejells2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋