,how to come out of closet..so to speak and talk to my straight adult men freinds ,women, i guess just be honest?........without getting beat-up, or wrong ideas about me ?
2006-12-05 17:09:24 · 8 answers · asked by galxtcstar 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Th truth of the matter is...it won't be easy. And some people will think less of you, or that you are trying to hit on them. Some of them may even decide not to be your friend anymore. The thing is though, who ever accepts you for who you are - those are the people you want around you anyway. The best way to tell someone - honesty. Don't just blurt it out, and if you make a big announcement of it, it will seem more like theatrics. Start a casual conversation on the matter of sexuality. I assume that most of the people you are worried about telling are people you love. Being bi does not mean you are any different once it is out.
2006-12-05 17:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by lynette g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it anyone's business....they should only have to know if you want to have sexual relations with them. I mean why does everyone in the world have to know what you are into. If if comes up you should feel free to mention it....if you want.
2006-12-06 01:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by anonbealove 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if they are your real friends, they will not think any differently of you. gradually show that you like guys and girls so they can get used to it, and if they ask, come out with the truth.
2006-12-06 01:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by maggie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOu know what I dont understand.. Why do people other than heterosexuals have to let others know?... I dont walk around telling everyone I meet that Im heterosexual, so why do you feel the need to tell that you are bi-sexual... Just live your life, have your relationships and so be it... (thats not to say I agree or disagree with your choices, im just saying why do you feel you need to tell? insecure?)
2006-12-06 01:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mintee 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
introduce them to your girlfriend....then a minute later, your boyfriend!! See if they can figure out 1+1+1=3!
BLessings
David
2006-12-06 01:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Send them a "I'm here and I'm queer stop buy for a beer" change of sexual orientation greeting card.
2006-12-06 01:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by @ubreY 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be honest about it really, if they're really your friends then they'll accept you, and if they don't then they weren't very good friends.
2006-12-06 01:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by Abtsolutely 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
most people are open-minded today. tell them. if they act weird, they're not your friend
2006-12-06 01:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by purple222 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋