My husband has a new employee who is female working for him. I have notice while im on the phone with him, hes doing things to her that he does with me. As well as i know him, he would never say or do those things unless he liked that person in a way other than friendship or family. am i being paranoid?
2006-12-05 17:00:24 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The little things he does is picking on people. Most people hes an *** to, with me its sometimes hell out of the blue make a weird noise and scare me. Hes been doing that alot with her as well. He seems to talk to her alot they way he talks to me. And i have asked, he just tells me that shes gullable and will believe and do anything. Hes very good at making up believeable stories, thats why i dont know what i should think. And when i ask him he just says im reading too much into things.
2006-12-05 17:15:51 · update #1
before you make any allegations please be sure of the signs and symptoms. How does one evaluate this: "hes doing things to her that he does with me". Kindly elaborate what makes u suspicious
2006-12-05 17:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by E=MC^2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are so sure that he is running off some thing with her then try to talk to him or else first c that somewhere u r not doing some thing which is being a turn off for him , some things which u r doing and he does not like it ,might be he is unable to tell u ,, or he is not getting the same amount of time which is required by him from u .... make a compaque of all these thing then think over a try to *** to the decision...
2006-12-05 17:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by riya k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to keep a watchful eye. You can tell if your husband and his employee have more going on than a firendship. Maybe go to lunch with them, and watch the interaction between the two of them, and also how they react to you being there. If you still have concerns, then you need to let your husband know your concerns and how it makes you feel when he does these things.
2006-12-05 17:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by nikkimays 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to him and ask him point blank if he has any feelings for this woman...or if he has had or thought about having sex with her...??? I think that you should be truthful with him and tell him that you feel uncomfortable with the way that he talks to her....and if he loves you then he will change that situation fast....(that's if he loves you and hasnt already cheated) If he just dont care about what you think then he has no RESPECT for you at all!!! and I think that would pretty much tell you that he has something for "HER" .... good luck!!
2006-12-05 17:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by HUM... ??? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very weary about this situation. Your jealousy may be leading you to think the worst case scenario. The best case in this situation would be to ask him directly what is going on...let the truth be unfolded to you by him, not by me or anybody else. Doesn't matter what I say here or anyone for that matter, the only one that knows if something is going on or not is him and the new employee.
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2006-12-05 17:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Christmasecheer.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust him if you don't what are you doing staying married to him .
if you are still wondering pop in on him sometimes . say at lunch time openly show attection to him and watch for her reaction . invite her out for a brunch and get to know her . , drop the hint's that you are aware of some unprofesional things . and that you can read body language . and your husband like a book. or drop the hint that he talks in his sleep . might be interesting what you can learn . good luck
2006-12-05 17:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by single-rose@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are being paranoid but hell, let him have his fun. He probably just wants to get a bit naughty with her. maybe a little fondle in a secluded place at work. what woman dont realize is its everymans fantasy. I say it will improve your sex life. have you thought about getting her over to join the 2 of you in the bedroom. go on get wild, he'll love you for it.
2006-12-05 17:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do not know your husband so i really can not say if he is cheating or not.Nor do I know the woman in question.I will say if he is doing things that are completely out of his character.Then that should raise a red flag.It sounds like he is flirting with her.In my experience.Where there is smoke?There is usually fire.
2006-12-05 18:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too early to say if he's cheating on you. But maybe he is starting to have feelings for her. Did he come home late, talk on the phone or MSN/ICQ all the time? Did he start to care about what he wears to work?
2006-12-05 17:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by Bui Bui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always trust you gut feeling 9 out 10 times your right
2006-12-05 17:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by wusabi12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares? hes a man and therefore can cheat whenever he wants. if he is, obviously you are horrible in bed and cannot satisfy him and thus u deserve to feel betrayed. you are the betrayer, though. start sucking his d*ck and see if he comes around (no pun intended). stop wasting time on this site, go suck him off right now and swallow...he will love you for it. and dont ever accuse a man of cheating again...he is superior to u. u look the other way and pretend things are jolly okay?
2006-12-05 17:04:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋