lesbians??

Question

im a 17yr old girl. well my cousin(girl-age:24) has kind of become really friendly with my sis and me of late....she is a very God-fearing person. but her behaviour is what freaks me out at times. she seems to be so attracted to my sis. and the two of them sleep on two different beds wich are put together so that makes it one big bed. and wen i walk into my sis's room sometimes to take something, i see both of them snuggled in bed whispering to each other. sometimes my cousin wud hav her legs inbetween my sister's. and i once accidently entered a room where both of em were hugging and the moment they knew i entered...they just let go of each other. and there was this one time wen my sis was in the shower and my cousin wud jus keep knocking for my sis to come out to tell her "bye" and then my sis opened the door a lil and peeped out, wrapped only in her towel, and my cousin jus stared at her and said 'why dont u come out this way, u look great'

im a girl,17.well this more of a continuation from my prev Question. well anyway those of u who can help me... pls keep reading. well my sis(age:20) told my cousin(f/24) abt her first crush who was this really smart guy at harvard and my cousin seems to hate him...this is really scaring me...are they lesbians??? wht confuses me is that homosexuality is against the bible then how does my cousin(who is a very God fearing person) go ahead in acting this way. after reading my first Q and now this one do u think they are lesbians?? pls help me out here. and for those of u who are reading this Q first and havent read the first...

28 minutes ago
well some of u have been really kind to help me with advice while some think its none of my business. well here's an instance that freaked me out completely. well the fact that she's my cousin i do talk to her and once we did get into this childish argument and it ended up in a more wrestling sort of thing...well only for fun and she happens to be really strong well at least wen compared to me...so she managed to push me on the floor with her on top of me, holding onto my hands really tightly...and she had her legs on top of mine so there was no way i could possibly move. i thought she was wrestling only for fun the way my other cousins and i used to wen we were kids so i was like "urgh! i hate u!!" and then she moved her head closer to my face and started kissing my neck and said "i love u".
by now she was completely on top of me. i just somehow managed to push her off me and then after that she just smiled acted like everything was jus for fun.

here's another instant. one day when i was all alone in my room, i had to change my clothes so since i was the only one upstairs i didnt have to lock the door so i just closed it without locking it. and then after i changed and turned back i saw the door half open with my cousin standing there and staring at me. and then after a few seconds she walked in and acted like nothing had happened and spoke to me generally abt stuff. did she actually watch me change my clothes and didnt want to mention it? it was jus too embarassing for me to ask her.

and the fact that i changed my lingerie does that mean she watched me while i was naked?

Answer 1

So...what's your problem? So what if someone's gay. Are you a homophobe or something? If you can't handle it, then don't be around it. I don't know what else to tell you.

Answer 2

Their lifestyle is not your business. Spying is rude, why are you following them around? If your only concern is it's in the Bible, read the whole book of Leviticus, (where that verse is).
Did you know it also say you can't eat a cheese burger? It says no meat and dairy in the same meal. It also says that if your on you period, (the woman is unclean) that she can't be in the house. So either you have to own 2 houses, or the women sleep in the yard every month. It also says no pork, so a BLT is a big sin. It also says to treat your slaves fairly. So does that mean it's ok to have slaves if your kind to them? And the big one, if your kids talk back to you, take them to church and have them stoned to death. You can't just single out a verse like that unless you follow all of them and I'm sure we don't do that. The final thing about it is the whole book of Leviticus was written to the Levites, (the preists), not to the common people.

Answer 3

There is not really too much you can do about their sexual preference. Just be true to yourself and your belief and who you are. Let them deal with god when their time to face him comes. All you can do is pray and let them as any human beings choose what ever they want to do. Just remember you can't be more holy than God and he allowed Adam and Eve to choose to eat from the tree of knowledge and good and evil. You don't have to like what they do but you can still love your sister. One of the things that really bothers me is the idea of your blood related cousin wanting to hit on your sister now that's sick. even if your cousin was a guy that would be a little to close for any kind of sexual activity. I mean thee are a whole lot of people out there and we don't live in the dark ages anymore. Why are 2 cousins getting it on like that.

Answer 4

I think that you definitely need to speak with your parents about your cousins behavior. I think that your cousin is molesting your sister or maybe coaxing her into doing sexual things for her pleasure. Then again, maybe they are in love? As incestuous as it sounds - I strongly suggest that you tell someone. This type of behavior is not normal and NEEDS TO BE ADDRESSED !!! YOU MUST TELL SOMEONE YOU KNOW !!!
Alright, given that you guys are all over the age of 18, has this every happened before? Has your cousin ever done this when you were children (touch, kiss intimately etc)?
If so, please speak with your parents.
Stay away from your cousin.
Don't be scared - Be smart - Say something before it's too late!

Answer 5

Why are you worrying so much about your cousin? are you homophobic or something? your cousin might be trying something she might like on someone she knows because she doesn't have friends that would want to experiment. I don't know what to say besides if you don't like it then get away.

Answer 6

The fact that its your cousin, is whats weird.

You could always flat out tell your cousin that you are uncomfortable with what she's doing.