Do all married people argue during their marriage?

Answer 1

No. My inlaws were married for over 50 years and had never been with anyone except each other. When they got older they moved in with us and were there until their deaths many years later. In all those years, I only heard one disagreement that became so heated that my mother-in-law called my father-in-law a "piss ant" that was enough to floor me and my husband! We had never heard anything like that come from her mouth! My late husband and I traveled together for many years in the cab of a truck for weeks on end...24/7 together time! We only disagreed about one thing, and that was the temperature inside the cab! Yes, there ARE peace loving people left in the world, I have to believe that, and even 'perfect' marriages involve disagreements, but those don't have to escalate into an 'argument'! Good question!

Answer 2

At some point in a marriage people do argue because we don't all agree. That is what makes us individuals. It can be healthy to agure actually because it allows us to vent about how we feel which allows us to express our feelings openly without keeping it bottled up inside until we explode. As long as hurtful things are not said and the argument is resolved. Sometimes you can come to an agreement and sometimes you have to agree to disagree. If you never have an argument and then oneday have a bad fight you are devistated because you are usually living in a fantasy world. We all know that no matter what is said life including marriage isn't a fairytale.

Answer 3

No. I can only say that because we didn't in about 19 years. No arguments. You discuss and come to an agreement or just communicate and let the other person have his viewpoints on things without being upset about it. I can't describe it good enough. But you get the idea. At least no one can say everybody argues in marriage.

Answer 4

all do have a type of argument but some dont argue becaue they have not real relationship or comunication and others dont apear to argue because they have learned to comunicate so well that they never get to a point that feels or looks like arguing. but the other 99 percent do argue. This is a good thing, a very good thing.

Answer 5

I think its normal for anyone who has any type of relationship to argue even if its occasionally. If not problems are being left unsaid and overtime they will grow within a person eventually causing a blowup It is very important to vent these things in a relationship and arguments are even said to bring people closer together!

Answer 6

Everyone argues... the true test of their love and commitment is how they resolve their arguments...

To be sure, that is also true of any relationship...

We lose site of that sometimes... in the midst of our anger.

My strong suit is being able to take a step back & surmise the situation...and then make rational decisions based upon what I feel is right.

Answer 7

If you have to ask that you have never been married.
You may have the occasional argument or the continuous daily ongoing nonsense fighting, but whichever way it goes, you cannot have a relationship without stress and caring. Mix that and you have an arguement.

If there are never any arguements, does that mean they don't care enough to fight?

I'd rather the arguing.

Answer 8

At some point during the marriage there's going to be a disagreement.

Answer 9

yes, it wouldn't be quite normal if they didn't. It may not be an arguement, but a disaggreement.
it is part of life, people argue with siblings, friends and so on. The thing is to learn from them.

Answer 10

Yes they do. Its very hard to get two people to compromise and combine income after living single for so long. Most married couples argue due to financial reasons.